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writes:Okay i was dating someone and hes 12 years older then me and before we got together he had a girlfriend but he says he broke up with her for me but because hes a good guy he was taking her back to her home in IL and is gonna stay 6 months to 24 months and im worried that he just used me for sex and said everything i wanted to hear cause he was playing with both of us and was like to me i love you i want to marry you but was saying the same thing to her cause when i came around he wouldn't talk to me or kiss me in less we were alone and when i had a scare that i was pregnant he hardly talked to me and he confessed that he slept with her 3 weeks ago before they left last week...and i broke up with him cause of that but i still love him im still in love with him and i believe in giving people second chances...should i give him a second chance or should i just say fuck it and move on cause he said hes coming back but i don't know if i can believe him cause he hasn't given me proof of him coming back in less you count him giving me his cat favorite hat and bandanna and chair and furniture and his favorite shirts that he never leaves anywhere with out them....anyway...what should i do forgive him but make him work for my trust and love or just say fuck it and when he comes back give him back his stuff
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (13 August 2009):
 Why go back to a two-timer, honey? He cheated on you with her. He also showed you his true colors when you had that pregnancy scare. Plus, why the heck is he staying out there for up to 2 years? Why no definite time? 6 to 24 months sounds like a prison sentence. Heck, it might be!
Give him back all his stuff and move on. It will take some time to get over him but you will, and you will find a better guy for you.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Move on!!!
I can see helping an ex move, but staying there for at least 6 months, maybe as long as 2 years! That's ridiculous!
And if he was genuinely repentant about having slept with her, he wouldn't put himself in temptation's way again.
He is inconsiderate at best, two-timing and untrustworthy in all likelyhood.
Run Screaming!
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