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writes:I really like this guy but I am not really sure how he feels about me? he would say all the right stuff and get me all excited about having a relationship with him then he would withdraw it all by saying something to take it all back i.e he would start to talk about us having a future together then he would spoil it by saying something like, "I cant wait to leave this country, there's nothing left here for me anyway, hate it!!" or he would say how he would "NEVER marry a woman with kids!" - I have 2 kids. Hmm. I am confused! Reply to this Question
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (13 August 2009):
 He doesn't know what he wants. If he was that interested in you, rampaging bulls would not stop him from asking you out and going for it.
That comment about marriage is a red flag that no matter what, odds are that you will not get married to this man.
I suggest you move on and find someone who isn't confused and is ready to love you and your children both.
Good luck.
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reader, Jolin  +, writes (13 August 2009):
 First thing to do:
forget about the bad things he said
and..
Forget about the good things he said as well
Then answer this : has he asked you to be his girlfriend??
if NOT, just dont take seriously whatever he said. He's just a friend.
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