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writes:I became very close to my cousin these last years! We would talk everyday and she would tell me everything. We would support each other through bad times, and laugh through the good. I was never really attracted to her, I was just seeing her as my cute little cousin. However, I was starting to feel that I was becoming more and more addicted to her. I would miss her terribly if I didn't talk to her for only 2 days. Up to the point that one day, out of the blue I had realized that I fell in love with her. I was confused at that point, seeing her, as my cousin, my best friend, and a girl. Naturally, I confessed but she totally freaked out. She said it was wrong. I knew It wasn't. Love can never be wrong. Was I so bad for telling her how I was feeling?Anyways, she stops talking to me and now when I try to talk to her she doesn't really talk back. She answers fast but stop talking to me. She would always tell me how much she loved me before and that I was the best guy in the world. Now, I feel like an insignificance insect in her path. How can I pass from best guy in the world to insect by simply telling her my feelings?Now, it's being 4 months, and i'm hurt and depressed. I cry everyday.I tried moving on, but any other girl seems dull in comparison with her. There are no connections.I lost my best friend.I miss her soo much...Help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Dude,
Firstly, what do you want a friend or a girlfriend. Unfortunately she aint interested as a girlfriend and so if you cant get over that you have lost her.
If you want her as a friend then you need to let her know that you think of her as a friend and just as a friend, she is probably freaked out thinking you were being weird all the time.
Secondly, Get out there meet more women and stop comparing them to her, you have put her up on apedestal as this paragon of womanhood, she is a woman and she has faults like everyone else, so get out there meet other women and give her time to see that you are normal, then maybe ye can be friends again.
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