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writes:I have really liked this guy for a while now, and I've recently found out that he likes me too. All of his friends have told me that he's going to ask me out. The problem is though, I've discovered that two of my friends really like him too. Although they don't know that I know this, I don't want to upset them if I do get into a relationship with him. Any advice would be greatly appreciated :/ Reply to this Question
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reader, fayz12 +, writes (13 August 2009):
 OK well I know how you feel and I've been in a similar situation so I can draw on personal experience.
How close you are to these friends is a big point. If your close enough to talk to them about it I would. If they're real friends they'll understand and won't give you a hard time about it.
If you don't feel you can talk to them about it for whatever reason then don't push yourself to. If one of them actually tells you they like him then I think you probably should say something but don't stress over it or you'll drive yourself mad. Besides how are you meant to know how the feel towards him? Like you said, they don't know you know they like him.
Hope this helps and good luck :) x x
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reader, Starlights +, writes (13 August 2009):
 There's 2 options firstly
you can come clean to your 2 mates who fancy this guy and say that you heard it in the rumour mill that he's gonna ask you out then see how they feel about you both dating
or
when he does ask you out turn him down, so you dont upset your 2 friends.
It depends how important your friends are too you and how much you like the guy.
you need to weigh it up.
Guys come and go but friends do stay.
Think on it.
Good luck!
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