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writes:I'm pretty shy and I'm usually attracted to shy guys too...this poses the obvious problem of neither of us making a move! It's always the very confident, very good looking guys who chase after me, and who I end up dating with mutually mediocre results. When I'm single, like now, I try and suss out if a certain nice guy is interested in me, but I really can't tell! I also try to flirt with him, not with much success. What can I do? If I knew he was interested I'd feel more confident about making the first move.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): I have been rejected and accepted in equal measure.
Do yourself a favour get out there and if you like somone make a move, even if you get shot down youll deal with it. If you dont get shot down then go you.
Being shy is one thing being afraid is another.
Go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Im in the same boat, I am quite shy around guys I like and usually they are shy too. usually i would just forget about it. However once i liked a guy and told my friend when i was drunk and she asked his friend and he said he was into me. then the guy made a move and we went out for near enough 8 months. I know it kinda childish but it worked. So maybe one of your friends can talk to one of his friends (not telling that you like him) and that will give you the excuse to talk and maybe he will pluck up the courage. Most of the time shy guys just need a push in the right direction
Good luck
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