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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Should I stop dating this guy?Here's my story, I am single parent of three. I own my own house, have a career, and make a good amount of money. The guy I'm dating has no kids, and makes way less than I do. He currently is staying with me due to getting evicted from the place he and his brothers were sharing. We have a lot of fun together but most of the time he doesn't get back to the house to 4 am when he's hanging out with his friends and on the weekends he doesnt come back until sunday night and he says he spends a night at friends houses. I feel like hes playing me so should I just let go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): Oh yes! He's definitely playing you. The only reason why he's living with you is because you have the money. He comes home at 4am because he rather spend time with his buddies then with you and your kids.If he was true, he would've stayed home with you, tried looking for a job to make some money, etc. Be smart, let him go.Think of your kids, I'm sure they don't like seeing their mother in this state.
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (13 August 2009):
This guy is using you - and using your house as a motel!
Suggest you send him on his way as he probably sees you as his meal ticket!!
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reader, Your friend +, writes (13 August 2009):
Its not whether you should go but how fast you can get him out of the house.
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reader, Jolin +, writes (13 August 2009):
every house has its own rule. If his attitude bothers you, you have to tell him your rule.
i think he's not playing on you..but i guess it's only about his attitude. So, just tell him about the rule in your house.
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