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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou all
i have to stay in hostpital but i am in a privert one thats why i am alowd my laptop i know i am only young i my mam is getting cards through the door saying ' shes only young probably better the kid dies anyways' shes has took time off work to be with me and she is being great
the doctors are telling me even if i do wait the whole nine months to have my lil angel she/he might not pull through and they are all advising me to get it out now but to be honest they basicaly saying murder your baby it will be okay theres no point
i will stay strong and fight till the end i will never
give up for he/she and i would rather he/she be okay then
me so i would give my life to them if a could
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reader, love-x-him  +, writes (18 August 2009):
 I hope your baby is okay hunnii, please let us know how you get on.. If ever you need to talk please email me, i half know what you are going through xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): You are one brave young lady - this is a very sad and scary position to find yourself in. Is your mum supporting you? Will you have to remain in hospital for now?
Whatever happens - your baby will know how much you love him/her and how much you have fought for them.Just take care of BOTH of you as much as you can, that's all you can do right now.
Good wishes for happy endings are sent your way.
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reader, \m/J.D\m/ +, writes (18 August 2009):
 you are an amazing young lady, i truely hope you BOTH pull though this and my thoughts are with you and little one, you are incredibily strong to carry on i cant imagine how hard it must be for you, i only hope that your mum is giving you all the support you need. feel free to email me anytime you need to talk im always happy to listen. take care sweethearts xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthey said that my baby has a heart condion which means if i choose to continue it could cause me to become ill but have decided to still continue with it as my baby means the world to me and anoo i can pull through
the doctors told me there is a 20% of it surviving but i live in hope this baby is my world i dont know what i would do without it x
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reader, love-x-him +, writes (16 August 2009):
Hi hunnii,
I hope you are okay. You have been so brave up to now with your pregnancy. I hope your baby is okay and safe. Let the nurses help you and hopefully your parents are okay with you. I have lost a child in my life and i hope you dont lose yours. If you ever need anyone to talk to, feel free to email me.
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reader, \m/J.D\m/ +, writes (14 August 2009):
im so sorry to hear that, whats the outcome hun? and what caused the bleeding? if you ever need to talk more just pm me i will gladly support you as much as i can. jd x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni havent miscaried but am in hospital for tonite as they are going to have to take some tests but it might be that they need to get the baby out now (which means it wont survive) or risk me falling fataly ill or it could be that the baby could have a problem but i will not know until the morning
i never told my mum i passed out and my mum rang an ambulance and one of the nurses told my mum.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (13 August 2009):
 You have to tell your mom and go to see an OB/GYN ( or go to the ER )
You may not have lost the baby, it is quite possible to bleed while pregnant.
Tell your mom now.
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reader, \m/J.D\m/ +, writes (13 August 2009):
its not a 100% that you've lost the baby, it could be a case of low lying placenta which can cause bleeding. however for the sake of your baby i would advice you get your ass off here and down to the hospital! not doctors.. and tell your mum she will help and support you. good luck i hope the baby is ok. jd x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Go to the dr NOW!!!
Something like this could potentially be very serious...
Your mum was going to find out that you are pregnant sometime, so she will be upset with you. But if you dont see a dr and there are complications, she will be even more upset as you would have put your life and possibly the life of the baby [if you havent miscarried] in danger.
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reader, A dodgy bloke +, writes (13 August 2009):
 I think you need to tell your mum. Then get an appointment with your doctors, today preferably. Just to get everything checked. Bring your mum with, for extra support.
Hope everything is ok =]
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (13 August 2009):
 huny i think you need to get to your doctors ASAP!!!
this sounds pretty serious you need to get to a doctor you'll HAVE to tell your mum you need someone to be there with you you're too young to go this alone!!
she'll know what to do! she'll be upset at first of course because you're her little girl but she won't want anything bad to happen to you or your baby!
you really must tell your mum sweety!!!
get to the doctors or hospital NOW!
hope this helps :)
best of luck update me let me know how everything goes!
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): IT's not 100% that you are miscarrying - many women experience some bleeding - even large amounts - during their pregnancy. The pain is an issue - you really do need to seek medical attention asap - at 24 weeks there may be something Dr;s can do to prevent contractions (if that is what is happening)...try to remain calm and get to a Dr or hospital asap.
I also think tekking your mum is a good idea - she is going to find out one way or another and she could actually support you/help you access help now. GIve her a chance - yes she will prob be shocked and even upset at you (given your age) but she is your mum - she will love you and want to make sure you are safe.
Good luck - I hope everything works out.
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reader, rosie-rouge +, writes (13 August 2009):
 I would contact your doctor - ring him up and/or go to see him. Just tell who ever is in the house that you are going for a walk and that you wont be long.
Hope everything goes well for you,
Ox'rosie-rouge
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