A
female
age
30-35,
*eath_rebel
writes:okay so there's this guy that i met from a friend and i really like him and he's 2 yrs younger than me. ive been hiding this feelings from him for almost a year and the only people who knows about it is my brother and our common friend. then one time, i heard them talking about a girl that the guy i fancy likes, and that they talk a lot on the phone, exchange sweet and cheesy text messages and stuff. and i also heard that he's planning to visit her one time and ask her if she could go out with him, he was really excited about it - i was happy for him but i cannot deny the fact that it hurts me like hell. and so i decided that i would stop hoping that he will like me too one day, and that im giving up on him already.after some time, 2 weeks or so, the girl lost interest on him - she stopped answering his calls and she wont even reply to his text messages and so he decided to give up on her.after a month, he asked me if he could court me and even though i said i would give up on him, i still said yes. and then we started dating after that. one day he told me that he's going out with his male friends and he didnt give me details of it, he just said that some of our male common friends are coming as well so i decided not to go with him. because he didnt tell me the details, i asked one of our common friends about it and he said that it's like a family thing and he told me that the girl my boyfried used to like is also coming. i felt paranoid but i decided to trust him.its been a week now since my bf and the girl he used to fancy saw each other and everything was good, or so i thought.we were exchanging text messages earlier this day and then suddenly he stpped texting back so i thought that maybe he was sleeping or that he was busy on something. and because i was bored, i logged in to facebook and there i saw them exchanging comments and stuff and when i checked the time, it was the same time when he stopped replying to my messages. so the reason why he stopped texting me is because he was communicating with her in facebook. am i just being paranoid?? am i being too clingy?? i dont know, i really dont know why i am feeling this way. i feel like she's gonna take him away from me, that my boyfriend will start liking her again and that he'll leave me for her. am i lacking trust here?? could somebody help me please.
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