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writes:This is a weird question I know I'm 15 yr old female currently in a relationship I've done things to him but I won't let him do anything to me because I'm worried.. Am I meant to shave or what if we have sex? It's worrying me if I do it wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): you are underage and having sex will put the other partner into legal trouble. Wait until you are 17.
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reader, justme..x +, writes (14 August 2009):
 If you're worried about "doing it wrong" then that kind of suggests you're not ready imo .... you are kind of underage anyway :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): why on earth did i put a ? after men prefer it... damn i cant type! i honestly meant men do prefer it bare.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): i reccomend shaving it looks better and men prefer it? as for the scarred for life and not ready stuff my response to whom wrote that is ???????
only she knows not you....
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (14 August 2009):
 I assume this is not facial hair. So if both of you are hairless down stairs, I would suppose it will be quite delightful. But I would never recommend that a 15 year old girl have sex. At your age its better to wait a bit, mature and learn that sex and intimate love are two different things.
One is okay and maybe feels good. Intimate love, however, will always include fantastic sex.
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reader, Watta_world  +, writes (13 August 2009):
Girl... Your underage and you really sound naive and rather silly... Don't let any one go down on you till you are confidant about having sex.. My sister and you are same age, we still treat her as a kid, it would be my worst nightmare to see her doing what you do...
I think you must be doing what most kids are doing out there..
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): I don't think you need to shave, but if you are expecting him to go down on you, I would consider trimming up a bit. Use a SMALL pair of scissors and just clip everything a little shorter and take care of any long hairs that might be in his path. I was a bit naive about down there hair care myself, and after my bf was giving me oral the first time and kept having to stop to pull hair out of his mouth, we discussed what would make things easier for him, without being difficult to maintain for me and that was our solution. When in doubt, ask him! He'll probably be too turned on/concerned about his own performance to be too concerned anyway...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): It needs to be clean and you should definitely trim it and tidy it with scissors. As for shaving, I personally shave the bikini area to make it look tidier, but I don't take it all off and my guy vastly prefers the slightly shaved to totally unshaven. I wouldn't shave it all off if there's no specific reason like a request, but I would probably shave the bikini line.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): no one is like labeled as meant to shave it depends how u want it
and as for sex
yeah ur not ready u'll be scarred for life ask your mother how she feels about this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Some men, well most like shaved girls. If you arnt sure about sex, dont do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): I'm 23 and I still don't know lol. Some guys really like shaved, some don't care. I didn't shave or anything until a few years ago, not knowing that people did (innocently), but just thinking some girls must be less hairy than me. But one boyfriend of mine complained to his mates (after I'd broken up with him) about how I could've tidied up down there a bit, but his mates told me that was just because he was annoyed at me breaking up with him and it's not that important. Then the guy I was dating a few years ago (who got me to start shaving) said he was a little put off about how much hair I had, but that was just because he was used to porn and didn't even realise girls were naturally hairier than that lol. Once he realised it was normal, he didn't mind as much... So anyway, my point is, it doesn't seem to be that serious an issue for most guys. Some do find it really sexy if you're completely shaved, but that's not something you can easily keep up all the time, so I suggest just doing your bikini line to start with, just so it's neater, and see how things go :)
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