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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My brother has assaulted me when i was a child In front of a few of his high school friends and he tore my underwear off and threw them in the middle of the street and made me get them while i was naked and a few years later my brother was very drunk and thought i was his "Girl Friend" while I was in my own bed and he proceeded to get in bed naked with me and i felt his nasty dick in the small of my back and he only left because i started to scream "MOM", "MOM"! What the hell can I do to retrieve my self esteem and man hood!? I want my brother to pay for his actions and now that I brought it up he has kept me from seeing his own kids like I'm the Pedophile! I see that he is using his own kids to get me to shut up and yet he is the one that i worry about with his own kids! what the hell can i do to stop his ass but not to interrupt him from having his kids taken away from him! I know when he did this to me he and i were very young and i do not want his kids taken away from his wife but i don't want my brother put away and to have him as a registered sex offender! I do not want his kids taken away from their own mother though! Can someone help me put my brother away before he touches his own kids or someone else's kids!???
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (14 August 2009):
 dude your just pissed first of he was drunk for that one incident from what you say he hasnt done anyhting to be registered as a sex offender ripping your underwear of wasnt sexual in nature he just new the tactic would humiliate you.following your philosophy pansing someone would constitute rape charges.I agree hes a jerk, he may even be a bad father but your hands are tied here you need to forgive this man seek counseling a therapist talking to someone about this can really help you. youve caried this burden to long its time too move on with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): You want to have your brother put away as a felon for two things that he appears to have done over 20 years ago? If there's no recent behavior that warrents a police investigation, then you're likely not going to get anyone to lift a finger.
You need to go seek some assistance in working through the damage that was done to you at a young age. Incidents like these can scare a kid and make them question their self-worth. Please seek the assistance of a good theropist and strat working to heal these wounds.
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