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female
age
36-40,
*addy girl
writes:HiI meet my boyfriend more than 1 year.At first he was being the best boyfriend,he treated me nicely and friendly to my friends...etc...very awesome.Then after 1 year,he start being a nasty boy which is what he thinks is sexy.He has asked me too much for boobies and then sex anytime he can lately(he wasn't do it to me before).He was really nice to me,caring and loving.He help me with anything I need and we spent times together as same as others couples but now he just being nasty and dirty to me.He doesn't even take me out for any dinners or movies.He just want to stays home and touching me whole day and sucking my boobies and if I say no then he will go away and don't even talk to me that day.I feel really bad and think that he just loves my body.I realy love him but I can not accept it when he ask for it every where and anytime he close to me.Is that a normal relationship?Please help me out. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): I'd say dump him .. Or get back some control.
My boyfriend is a bit like that too, all of the touchy stuff just makes me even less attracted to him.
First talk to him say something like, 'you know if you want to do all that you have to start treating me with some respect again, you haven't taken me out in months I'm not your wh***e'
Don't be fooled by a one-off nicey nice act either, see how it goes but there are plenty more fish in the proverbial sea.
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female
reader, rosie-rouge  +, writes (13 August 2009):
 Hello,
To be honest, that doesn't sound like a normal relationship. I think guys can be like that but they start off doing it and just carry on but not how you described it. I know you said you loved him etc, but you need to ask yourself whether he is worth it (especially as he is doing things like this to you) and whether you want to continue doing it. If the answers are no, you have to end it before it gets worse.
Also, I think if a guy likes a girl only for looks then he is not worth it because he obviously doesn't care what that girl is really like(personality wise).
I hope I helped,
Ox'rosie-rouge
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