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writes:Why would a seemingly 'Godfearing' guy resort to using an adult dating porno website to meet women???He is not ugly( about a 5) is EXTREMELY successful, can get almost ANY woman he wants to date him - and he goes on an awful lot of dates - drives a very expensive car, is well off and basically has a lot going for him. So why does he spend so much of his time on the porn websites? Apart from watching porn, what else could he be doing on there? Can anyone tell me what BDSM stands for?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didn't knoow what BDSM stood for but only that this guy states in his profile on these pornsites that he does not do BDSM! so thanks BRITT for enlightening me!;-))
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi and thanks everyone for your valuable and insightfulk answers!The reason I am asking is because the guy is a very giood friend of mine who has made no secret of his attraction to me.. I didnt really look at him in that way BEFORE but the idea of a relationship with him is starting to grow on me - but for his porn 'addiction' AND his lies about it!! He does not even kbnow that I have seen him on these websites and once (whilst out with him) I told him someone told me about the images and that I planned to view them once i got home, he swore in God's name that there would be no naked images of him on the internet - but as soon as we parted he removed his images and deactivated one of the main accounts - which meant that by the time i got in they wouldn't be there! - only trouble is I'd ALREADY seen them and watched him LIE through his teeth! Hmmm...
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reader, searbear +, writes (13 August 2009):
 sounds like he has (sometimes seen as strange) sexual fantasies.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM
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reader, Jolin  +, writes (13 August 2009):
 you must ask him for the answer..hehehe..
okay, now here's my guess;
1. he doesnt want a committment..porn website means no string attached. just imagine if he find a woman in the praying community (you said he's seemingly Godfearing guy), he will never act like "hit and go" to that woman
2. he feels insecure, regardless he's extremely successful, drives a very expensive car..he may be afraid of being rejected. Yknow, many women dont see the wealthy as the first indicator to involve the relationship with a guy
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