| A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have a girlfriend and I love her to bits but I also have feelings for one of my male friends who I think is gay, what should I do Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): First find out if your guy friend is gay/bi/str8 before you stop your curent relationship. Find out if he has similar feelings for you, and if it would just be a fling or a lasting relationship? Ask your self do I love him,and could I love him as I love my girl,if not more than her? You have feelings but is it more than just feelings? I would stop dating her, before I would persue a new relationship. But first get all the facts before you make your final decision. Good luck
A
female
reader, missjones  +, writes (13 August 2009):
If you have feelings for a male then act on them, there is nothing worse than a gay male with a stright female, its wrong to hold her back and also hurt her at the same time but you would be also holding yourself backTruly sit down and think about what it is that you want for your self and make a smart decision based off of thatHoped it helped
...............................
A
female
reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (13 August 2009):
You do nothing.
You have a girlfriend. You DO NOT CHEAT.
If your feelings for him are stronger than the feelings you have for your girlfriend, then split up with your girlfriend and chat up your friend.
It's a risk because if he knocks you back then you will have no one.
But that is the risk you take. It is not easy being bisexual, but basically you must always be with one person at a time. (unless you are lucky enough to meet someone willing to have an open relationship)
Figure out who you want more and go for them.
Good Luck!! xx
...............................
A
female
reader, Ren-  +, writes (13 August 2009):
 Are you sure that you have feelings for this male? If so, maybe you should try and talk to him... Perhaps if you are that close to your girlfriend you should tell her the truth before it goes too far and you end up hurting her. See what she has to say, if she loves you too then she should be understanding and try to help you.
If you have any queries with what I have said please PM me.
...............................
A
female
reader, rosie-rouge +, writes (13 August 2009):
 You should find out whether you REALLY have feelings for both of these people. If you leave making a decision any longer, you will hurt your girlfriend, which I am sure you don't want to do.
Maybe, you should talk to your male friend about it, if you are like best friends or close friends. See what he says.
Hope it ends up ok,
Rosie-Rouge.
...............................
|
