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writes:I spent a fortune to be on holiday with my boyfriend and the kids. We were not on holiday together as such but spent sometime that I found beautiful and I really enjoyed his presence. It was the first time in over a year we became intimate. We laughed and joked.However, he kept trying to dig at me about silly things example, I will ask a question and he will say, how many times are you going to ask that question. He would continunously dig at me. Most times I would laugh it off but sometimes it feels quite patronising and as if he is humililating me.I want to talk to him about this as in front of the kids its disrespectful.any advice.
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reader, Jolin  +, writes (13 August 2009):
 wow...if my boyfriend ask me "how many times are you going to ask that question'i will reply :"as many as times i want to.." Just confront him.. i think what happen to you is only a part of adjustment period of couple. He needs to understand what you want, and what your style is :)
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reader, FindmMe_1224  +, writes (13 August 2009):
Im not sure if he was really trying to humiliate you, but he was just childishly picking on u! if u dont like it then ask him to stop. you can just say "can you stop saying that cause it kinda hurts me" and if he loves u he will say sorry! SIMPLE!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Yeah you really have to confront him about this, at the end of day it sounds like he is going on like a child himself and it sounds like your really annoyed by it so your best just to get it out in the open before it eats away at you and just so you know where you stand etc. So Hopefully it works out for you and it makes your relationship stronger.Also maybe he is stressed but it better to get it out in the open in all honesty.
Personally I would wait till your home to talk about it though so it dosnt ruin the kids holiday but if it is really annoying you now try to do it when you in private away from the kids.
Good luck X
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