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writes:Hi, Basically a straight forward question. I'm confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time. I've heard it loads of times about 'breaking in' etc but still don't get it, is it messy like a mate of mine said years ago? what exactly do I/we need to for this first time? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk, Thank you. And why did that scowl frighten me?? lol.
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reader, BadderzGirl +, writes (2 September 2009):
It won't hurt you at all.
Lucky guys . . .
*scowls*
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thank you for the reply. Also one more question....will it hurt me? I'm asking the wrong people I know lol.
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reader, BadderzGirl +, writes (17 August 2009):
What happens is there is a small kind of skin barrier called a hymen which a penis breaks which releases a small amount of blood, nothing too bad just be careful of the colour sheets you use!
The girl will experience some discomfort, different for every girl depending on their pain threshold.
What you should do if you're with a girl and it's her first time, you should be caring, careful and SLOW. Try to enter her extremely slowly, NO SHARP JABS and be really sweet about it like whispering to her 'You're doing great' and kissing her face/neck/mouth lightly and affectionately. It'll really help her and make her feel good about herself knowing that you care
Hope it helps
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reader, BadderzGirl +, writes (17 August 2009):
What happens is there is a small kind of skin barrier called a hymen which a penis breaks which releases a small amount of blood, nothing too bad just be careful of the colour sheets you use!
The girl will experience some discomfort, different for every girl depending on their pain threshold.
What you should do if you're with a girl and it's her first time, you should be caring, careful and SLOW. Try to enter her extremely slowly, NO SHARP JABS and be really sweet about it like whispering to her 'You're doing great' and kissing her face/neck/mouth lightly and affectionately. It'll really help her and make her feel good about herself knowing that you care
Hope it helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok, thanks for the replies and helping me understand it better. i would have liked a few more replies just to ease my mind a bit more but hey, thanks again.
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (13 August 2009):
 It will probably hurt but not all women experience this pain everyone's different...as for the blood it will probably show when you wipe yourself...it doesnt pour out or go everywhere its usually a really small amount you probably won't even notice....Its not messy - making love for the first time is amazing...Relax and enjoy it!
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reader, \m/J.D\m/ +, writes (13 August 2009):
 its quite simple, as the penis breaks through and begins to enter you you will feel some discomfort the first time, its no messier than having sex any other time but you may (most likely) bleed a little the first time. it will hurt but the more comfortable you are and understanding your partner is it shouldnt be to bad. it will feel much much better once your having regular sex. good luck! JD
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