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41-50,
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writes:I met a guy just over a year ago i was 25 and he was 22 and it was great at first, there was lots of physical stuff and affection everything seemed like it was going well. Gradually over the course of about 2 months the sex almost completely stopped except when we were drunk so i dont really count it. We moved in together very quickly about a week after meeting and have not spent more than 4 hours apart for the past 15 months, but he wants every woman but me, he will not touch me at all but says he would welcome threesomes with me and any other girls, i have asked him why and he has said that he dosent want a relationship but he lives and spends every waking moment with me almost. We have a joint bank account and everything but he makes no secret of the fact that he dosent want me, that we are just friends and that i must be ok with him and other girls because thats what he wants.Im lumbered with the situation because i have nowhere to go and he knows that, im losing my grip on reality as my jealousy is destroying me and my self esteem is too low to even try tell myself im worth more, im not a stupid girl and i get hit on very often, more than most girls im doubting myself to the point of paralysis i just want to know why, can someone supply some insight so i can understand
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reader, white rose  +, writes (20 August 2009):
you`re important for him he don`t want to loss you he don`t want you to be like the other girls his flirting with then get lost
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reader, Renee okc  +, writes (13 August 2009):
You are making excuses he is using you for a happy home life while he is still able to go and play the field. I can understand you guy's are roommates but why in the hell do you have a joint bank account. You need to find you another place to stay and move out. See with a man like him you have to show him you don't need him and you can get any man you want. If your self esteem is low that is because you made it that way if you weren't sitting around waiting for him to come home while he is out with god knows who, then you wouldn't feel bad like you do. You are older but yet he has all the control in your "Friendship" are you serious, you are making your mental hell. Stand up and Say I'am not taking this anymore and do something with yourself. Apparently you have money if you have a joint account and I am sure you can find a room for rent somewhere. Start dating again and you will see how attractive you can be because you have know where to go but up from here honey. Get a backbone and stop being a doormat please.
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