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writes:So last night my friend and I met 3 guys at a bar. After the bar closed, we agreed to meet them at one of their houses. Everything was cool, my friend has a bf and I had no intentions of hooking up with anyone or doing anything of that nature, just hang out, that's all. Well the guy that got my number and was calling me apparently started showing interest in my friend because she started talking about sex nonstop and her sex life. So obviously it gave me the impression that that's all he wants and I wasn't that attracted to him anyway, so I just ignored him and started talking with one of his friends.Well his friend and I had probably one of the best conversations. He was smart, knew different things about the world, complimented me for not being an airhead like most girls, and we were interested in A LOT of the same things. I think this is probably the first time I have ever been intrigued by a guy just because of our conversation. I can honestly say that just from our talk, I kind of like him. So the deal is, I have his friends number (that I'm in no way interested in) but not his! I was hoping he would ask me for mine, but unfortunately, he didn't. He did get out of a relationship a month ago, maybe he wasn't into me in "that" way, or he didn't want to ask for my number since his friend was the one who invited me over. I don't know how I would go about letting that guy know I'm interested. I think it would be less than tactful to ask the other guy to tell the guy I'm interested in to call me. Anybody have any ideas? Or just hopefully I'll run into him again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell it isn't my friend that has his number...the guy that was calling me but then took an interest into my friend is the friend of the guy I took a liking to. So I don't know if asking him for his friends number or asking for his friend to call me is really a good idea. I was kind of sensing jealousy from him anyway since I wasn't really paying attention to him that much anyway when he invited me over (I pretty much thought he was boring)and was having conversations with his friends rather than him. So if he chooses to be an a-hole and either not say anything or give a false number kind of makes me nervous since I don't know how he'll react.
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reader, urbanking99  +, writes (13 August 2009):
The best thing would be to speak to your friend and see if she has his number. It's at least a starting point.
If you know his fullname why not try facebook, even first names work and it's even better if they put a picture on their profile.
Do you remember if he said anything about going to college or University?
Depending on the size of the town or city you live in - running into people - most unlikely, but still a small chance.
At least you knwo the guy lives in the same place as you. I met somebody recently on chatted to her briefly. Stupidly never asked for her e-mail or cell number and even more stupid never gave mine. All I know is her name (which I shall not reveal) and she lives in Central Florida, used to live in Texas and was orginally from North Carolina, and I live in the UK. (D'oh - foolish me!)
I wish you every success in finding him!
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