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Why doesn't he make love to me?

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Question - (13 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, *abulous writes:

my boyfriend makes excuses to have sex with me he says we will but it never happens and every time i bring up the subject it causes an argument and he makes more excuses why we havent had sex its been 3 months now and still im waiting why is he doing this

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A female reader, \m/J.D\m/ United Kingdom +, writes (13 August 2009):

\m/J.D\m/ agony auntwell do you still kiss and cuddle? have a good relationship out of the bedroom? if so it mite not be as cut and dry as he just doesnt want sex.. it may be something hes really scared of facing like erection difficulties! is he stressed with work or family life? anything like that could cause this problem. if however the rest of the relationship is as limp as your bedroom antics, there is also the chance and im only saying chance here so dont panic, that there is someone else.. i would gently approach the subject with him, keep things calm and hopefully he should open upto you about it. hope thats helped. JD

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