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30-35,
*rdinaryrisktaker
writes:Hey it's me again guys after alot of months haha. Anyway I need help with something I need to know if I made the right decision. Anyway there was this girl who liked me and we flirted and even kissed! but then soon after she tells me she wasn't seeing it that way. I told her "Are you dumb?" cuz seriously when does a girl kiss u like that and not call it a relationship anyway. Few days later her soo called great friend comes up to me and tells me that they are going out.. At 1st I thought he was bullshitting me (excuse my language) but anyway she said yes so what I did I was angry told her why she made me to believe that something would work that I will leave her alone forever. So anyway I'm not her friend deleted her from msn and yahoo. Cuz I respect myself before anything. So I will forget her and I am progressing well with it. Question is am I doing the right thing? I mean I don't want to remember that. So Idrc I just let it be. Apperantly now she's crying she told him everything we did. She's crying cuz she wants to be with me and talk to me. But I refused and I won't be with her. Tell me what u think I should do.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 August 2009):
Well if she wants to be with you and you want to be with her, then why are you refusing to talk to her?
You are being very childish.
Either you want to move on because you got hurt by her flirting, or you want to give her a second chance.
Make you mind up and then stick with it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, mulattoman +, writes (13 August 2009):
 "when does a girl kiss u like that and not call it a relationship anyway"
It's called having fun as single. Just because she kisses you doesn't mean she wants a relationship. Just like when guys fuck women and don't want a relationship. SAME CONCEPT.
"So anyway I'm not her friend deleted her from msn and yahoo."
Very immature on your part. Get over it. Find some one else. Doesn't mean you can't have a friendship with her.
I think you should get over the fact she was flirting and having fun with you. She was experimenting. I know you got hurt, but next time do like every other guy and don't invest your feelings and emotions UNTIL you have the relationship. These days kissing and fucking doesn't mean shit to people. It's the new "holding hands" for our generation. It's sad... but true.
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