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writes:it started out i was working for a golf course with a couple of friends of mine, and there was this girl i found quite attractive so i would see how it went through the year. a few weeks in, my friends were telling me "man you should really go for this girl she is really into you she is talking about you constantly like i'm some sort of god"(not joking that what they said) so i went for her it worked out we went out, talked all the time on the phone, i thought it was going great then suddenly. boom. she tells me she doesnt want the relationship, she didnt want it to work. (two days before i was leaving on a what i thought was going to be a great trip to mexico turned horrible because of this news) so i return. with her on my mind. thinking, ok we will still be friends, but no everytime i tried talking to her she acted as if she never wanted to talk again now its been a month and i still think about her. i still want her back. what do i do? how would i win her back? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): hi. replying to my question
well is there anyway of just getting her to talk to me or just be friends without pushing her away more.(and i feel the 1st answer may do that. Sorry but it may make me sound needy) we were good friends before we started dating. i think that may be all i want right now is to understand why she has done this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): Phone her and say, Look it's been just over a month and I still haven't got you off my mind. It seems I really do like you. I was wondering if I have done anything or is there any issue which has put you off me. I mean you did initially like me and we were having great times together, weren't we. I hope you feel comfortable enough for yourself to tell me what went wrong, or it seems, I've made an error their to. If you don't wish to talk about it, that's okay. But I'll wait a week or two, if you would wish to phone me. Then I know I need to get on with my life.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (14 August 2009):
 wow chicks are like that man you just gotta let this one go theres 30 million people n canada you'll find another girl mght not be easy but now you have a reason to go back to mexico think about how much you will enjoy t knowing your single. Forget this girl move on
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (14 August 2009):
There is nothing you can do but move on she isn't interested in a relationship with you and has made that known what can you do why keep getting rejected especially if things were good like you claim. Look at it this way she is being smart and honest and you can never fault someone for that she just wasn't ready that is the bottom line. Maybe some day she will talk to you but then maybe she just wasn't that into you dude. I am sure your a great guy look at it like ya'll just didn't click.
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