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writes:I really am attracted to this guy at work who has a g/f, but it appears he's about to break off with her, and he knows I like him and has shown signs for over a year to like me as well. Without going into detail about all the flirty ways we've exhibited our attraction to each other, I'm trying to figure out if I should back off completely while he breaks up with his g/f or if I should keep on letting him flirt with me as usual. If I could get him alone sometime I'm sure to plant a kiss on his lips but this opportunity might not present itself for awhile so meanwhile how do I handle? Thanks in advance for your usual insights.
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reader, nanogrl75 +, writes (11 April 2009):
Okay, would you want some girl at work after your guy. Back off and let his relationship run its course. First off, you don't want to be a 're-bound'. The best thing you could do is to be his friend and give him support if and only if he asks for it. Don't push him. Don't flirt with him and don't get him to try to cheat on his current girlfriend with you. Because you know what, if you allow him and yourself that opportunity, he might show you that much respect in the future if you two were to get together and do the same thing to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): Hes got a girlfriend bottom line.. leave him alone until its over. Even better find somebody who isnt already taken! Think about how his poor gf will feel. If he doesnt end it with his gf and starts something with u then he is a dirty cheater!
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