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writes:There is this guy I have been dating, but I can't figure him out. He will start calling me all the time and then we will go out. Then he will call me the next day but will go about two or three weeks before he will talk to me again. Then he does the same thing over again. He lives about two hours away so it is hard to see each other. I have only seen him like five times and this has been going on for like four months. We usually talk like two or three times a week. Last time he had me meet his family and was talking about things we could do in the summer. Then he just stopped talking to me again. I am seriously so confused. Why would a guy be a flake like that? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Yeah.. First off it sounds like you are sitting around waiting for him to call. I think you should take more initiative if you like this guy. Not in a nagging way, in a sweet, caring way.
also I mean there are several possibilities.. He might not feel you as much as you would like, but introducing you to your parents is a big step, so I tend to doubt it.
He's probably been hurt in the past by being to overeager with a girl, so he is trying to play it cool with you. That is how players are made, they aren't just born so cautious and seemingly uncaring you know...FEMALES do it to them. And then, in turn, guys hurt y'all with their behaviour and turn Y'ALL into the seemingly heartless. Its a vicious cycle.
I would bet my bottom dollar that you have an ex gf to thank for his current behaviour. Break the cycle.
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