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female
age
30-35,
*oftlipz
writes: I've been friends with this guy since last semester and I started liking him since we joke around, talk and play around together a lot. I think he likes me back by the things he does such as: trying to get my attention all the time when I'm doing my work, he starts smiling as I walk into class, he's rude to me for no reason then he says: I'm just joking, he's always looking me up and down, whenever I'm talking to someone in class, he's always butting in in the convo. So I was convinced that he likes me but there's this other girl in my class who he talks to; they laugh and joke around too but not as much as we do and yesterday she never came to class so he said that he missed her then I was jealous but I pretended that I was ok then I said to him: "aww, she will be here tomorrow" then he said: shut up, you're just jealous because I don't miss you when you're away." Was he just saying that to get me jealous? and one more thing, whenever I talk to this guy in class, he's always saying: "ohh, I see you found a new best friend" is he saying that because he's jealous?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Yes and yes.
I would be careful before allowing these games in your life. A good friend wouldn't pit any kind of friendship against yours. A good friend doesn't try to use negative feelings to gain attention. A good friend gives positive, genuine experiences and cares that you feel happy.
Question: if you had no sex drive at all, none, what use is this guy? Why?
How about giving attention to those whom are honest and don't play games -
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