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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:So there is this girl who I really like and I have been for quite a while. We've know each other for about two years but just started talking this year. Yesterday I told her I wanted to tell her something because it was bugging me. She guessed that I like her and she was right. Two problems here though, I'm a girl and so is she. She told me she is straight, but I still have this small feeling that maybe shes confused about her orientation because I flirt with her a lot and even my friends notice it. She was talking to me all day yesterday and she doesn't mind me touching her, like tickling, poking, or touching her hand. She always laughs when I am around, like non-stop and she is always smiling too. She always cares about my feelings and doesn't want me to get hurt and she said shes always here for me if I need anything. She also asked me why I liked the last person I liked so much and said something bad about them, but that person was also their good friend. I told that I was flirting with her once just to find out if she noticed it or not and she said it's okay and that it didn't bug her. (She didn't know until I told her.)I just don't get this girl though because she is so confusing and I don't know if she is really straight, just not sure, or something else. Help me out please!
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reader, BethyBoo  +, writes (10 April 2009):
 I also think you should cut down on the flirting but still be friends. If she says she's straight, i think she is. Alot of people in our age group are confused about their sexuality and flirting may further confuse her. Best to let her figure things out herself, youll get over her.
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