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writes:theres this guy i like, weve kissed and he fingered me at my party last weekend. (which he surpsingly came to)Weve been speaking online and texting for the past 3/4 months and bumped into each other at the bus stop about 4 times. Also we went to the cinema.Ive had enough though, were not seeing each other or going anywhere.All we ever do is speak online, hes all lovley and talkative and flirty. And sometimes i think well maybe he likes someone else and has lots of girls like me. But the amount he speaks to me you wouldnt expect him to.Since my party ive asked about meeting up and hes gave me a maybe next week answer, im gonna text him on sunday and ask if he wants to do anything at the start of the week.if he gives me a maybe answer (like he will). What shall i say?I just want to give up, i sick of trying to meet up, ive tryed being pushy, ive tryed being laid-back , nothing works. Yet he always speaks to me first and is all lovley to me.But if i give up and back off and see if he comes running, if he doesnt thats it .. im on my own :(
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reader, PrincessSmithee +, writes (11 April 2009):
PrincessSmithee is verified as being by the original poster of the question thankyou, it helped alot.
Infact ive just brought an online copy of 'Hes just not that into you' book.
Im so inspired, I should be upset that he doesnt like me, but im strangley happy, think its becuase ive been stressing for the past 3 months and my minds finally at rest, and i can move on i guess :) and if he does like me, .. well he'l be in touch wont he.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Sounds like he isnt interested. Im a guy and if i was interested in a girl she would know about it. Either that or he is really shy, but that just sounds annoying. My advice is to leave him alone completely. Youll soon know then if he wants you or not. Also your young.. dont worry about being alone it wont happen.hope that helps
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reader, CaliGrown09  +, writes (10 April 2009):
 oh jeez i HATE this feeling! guys piss me off when they do this. but thankfully i've learned that if a guy is interested in you enough, he'll FIND and MAKE a way to come see you & go somewhere. have you heard of the book "hes just not that into you." this will answer your questions about why hes not "putting out more" i guess if you want to call it. basically, if he really wanted to see you & stuff he'd find a way. hope i helped =]
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