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writes:i need tips on how to be more outgoing. because i have this freind who use to be a "nerd" untill i met her and i always use to be the pretty one now that i "made" her she is so goregous and her clothes are nice and her hair looks amazing.. i have to admit yes i am jelous.. i dont wanna compete with her for who looks the best but i just want tips for hairstyles something to make me look prettierbtw..i have shoulder length hair so if u give me hairstyles give me ones for short hair. Reply to this Question
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reader, 00130945 +, writes (11 April 2009):
You just need to work on being more confident and not worrying what other people look like. If you are always comparing yourself to others you are never going to feel good enough because there is always someone prettier and someone smarter, so don't even bother. Getting a new hair cut or clothes might make you more confident but that won't last. Honestly guys probably won't even notice that you changed your hair. Helping your friend dress and look better was very nice of you, and that is the kind of thing that will make other people like you. It is important to take care of yourself and look good, but looks aren't everything.
Just think about the reason why you are attracted to people. I am sure looks are part of it, but honestly if someone is a real jerk you won't like them no matter how cute they are. Then there are those people who aren't that cute but the more you are around them the more you like them. So just be a good person and don't compare yourself to your friend. Work on being more confident and liking yourself for who you are, and you will be happier.
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need  +, writes (11 April 2009):
 Hi there :)
There is no specific way to look more attractive.
Basically you just need to change your appearance to how you think will look better, but not such a transformation that you are barely recogniseable.
Get your hair cut shorter maybe, or have it dyed?
Invest in some new make-up, and get an assistant to demonstrate make-up techniques on how to make the best of your features
Update your wardrobe, wear some jewellery, buy some new shoes! GO WILD!
These sort of things won't only make you look better, but you will feel better about yourself.
And confidence is attractive in a person.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): I think the most important aspect about being attractive is your attitude and personality. If you think that making your hair or clothes look better is going to change your 'jealousy' about a friend you were helping out then you are thinking about things in the wrong sense. Friends love each other and aren't jealous of one another. I think the best thing for you to do is to focus on the positive aspects of yourself. Don't view yourself as competing with her for looks because this will show in the light as others view you. Most guys don't like girls who are so concerned about their appearance anyways. They like girls who are real and who are confident with themselves. Go out with your girlfriend and have a great time and don't look at things in such a physical aspect. Then you will truly be free.
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