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I don't know how to tell my chat friend that I love her.

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Question - (10 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2009)
A male Nigeria age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Its like am in love with this girl, she is 18 and am 18 she is living far away from me but in same country.

We both met in a chat site. I call her on phone most time, she told me about her self and I told her mine, the way I hear her voice on phone each time I call her tickles my heart, although i have neither seen her personal nor viewed her pic.

But i feel she is good and kind my mind never goes off her imagination, and am kind of shy guy so dont know how to tell her i love her. I just keep imagining being with her. But this shyness has been an obstacle. So what do i do? Am in love with her so deeply.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009):

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Oh..Hoo...! Tell her that! Oh that might cause her to drop the call. And if does what will i do. Or if she do not drop what do you think will be her response.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntNext time you talk to her just say "I think I'm falling in love with you" and just see what she says.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009):

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Armymedic hmmm... Thanks but you asking me how an in love with a girl i havent seen is a question which am not sure i can answer in the next ten years, I dont just know, but i feel too well that she is kind, and will be good and from the way she speaks i dont think she has lied. I just dont know am beginning to trust her and would want to meet her but the matter is my shyness. Its the only obstacle holding me i just dont know how to begin. Pls say something.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntYou can tell her how you feel. As you have said you are imagining being with her, you are imagining what she looks like, and how she will act around you. In fact apart from the fact you have spoken to her she is a completely imaginary girlfriend. How do you know she is 18? She could be 60 and just saying what you want to hear.

Has she seen what you look like? I know this sounds harsh but you might actually not like each other when you see each others pictures.

I am being very negative here but how can you love someone you have never met?

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