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writes:please help! i don't know what to do!!! i wrote on this before, but i really don't think anyone understands how depressed i am!normally Im a happy girl and i like to enjoy life to the max! but recently i get these pangs where i feel so so sad!I think i know what's causing it: i fell for this guy. he made me feel loved. ive never felt so happy!!! but then he used me for sex and anything else i could offer him. as he knew i was so blind to his intentions as i liked him so much. i would never be so naive in the future!!i obviously could tell something wasnt right as he didnt act like a bf. i told him on several occasions that i was cool with being friends if that's what he wanted. but he insisted that he wanted more and had feeling for me. his words didn't match his actions though! i found out that he was seeing someone else. i don't know why he didn't just tell me! i cant believe someone i cared about so much lied to me! he showed his real colours when i found out! he lost all his charm, didn't even apologize or anything. now When i see him with his girl i feel sick it opens up the wound all over again! he obviously is totally into her and wasn't with me! which really hurts. yes i know he is a jerk. and i wouldn't be with him even if he came begging (which he would never do anyway as he is so into his chick). i just wish i had someone to love me and make me feel great!!!i don't know how to explain how i feel any better! i know this doesn't sound like a sob story but for me it has somehow hit me bad!i got no one to talk to about it! all my emotions are bottled up as my friends and family dont know i was seeing him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): thanks guys i really appreciate the support! i know it sounds not that big a deal but its really affected me somehow. anyway, thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): I can completely empathise with your position and have been theredepression wise as well.
Lt me cut to the chase. Do you deserve this? Honestly does this guy deserve you?
Make a list of what you deserve and honestly ask how much he was giving you,
Only by going through this process will you actually come to believe that he doesnt deserve you. That in my experience will allow you to move on.
As far as depression goes, definitely seek help, there is a better day and I have been as low as you can go without actually going if you catch my drift.
Chin up girl, you have ut all ahead of you and you dont need that jerk,
Elpigaro
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): That totally sucks. I'm sorry you went through that. It hurts like hell, and it seems to take forever to get over it.
There are people you can call to vent and to get advice. You're in Canada, so there's Kids Help Phone -- I just checked their site, and they deal with people in their 20s, so don't let the name put you off. There's also this resource:
http://www.thesupportnetwork.com/
They're in Edmonton, but I don't think there's anything stopping people elsewhere in Canada from asking them for support.
Call a free counselling service, and let someone who knows help you to cope.
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