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writes:I am looking for advice from people that have been or are in long term relationships.I have been going out with this girl for 6 years now. We met in high school, I went away to college and we continued dating long distance, then she moved to the college town I am in now and we have lived together ever since. We always talked about getting married, buying a house and having kids together... and she always seemed to be excited about these things.We used to spend all of our time together... when we went out with friends we BOTH went out with them. She used to be very supportive of everything that I do and used to want to do things with me and be excited about doing things.Now she has found some new friends and is gone all the time. Even when she is here she doesn't really talk to me and doesn't want to do anything with me. It isn't that I even care that she has new friends... its that she doesn't include me at all. She never asks if I would like to come with her when she goes and hangs out with her friends (I always ask her if she would like to come hang out with me and my friends).I am really confused and don't know what to do. I tried talking to her... asked her how everything is going and if anything is bothering her. I basically can't get her to talk with me. She just pretends like everything is normal and nothing is going on.I would really appreciate it if someone could give me some advice.Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2009): She has probably found someone new. Life is to short! if you have put 6 years into your relationship and she has been and still is acting that way then move on. I know it hurts but you will find the right girl to spend the rest of your life with. good luk
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2009): i have the same problem
i'm probably just getting really boring to her.
she always pushes me away whenever i want to hug her and kiss her too, its been like this for a while.
i just want her to miss me
oh well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): give her space dude.. shes probably thinking about leaving you, if you want to save this relationship dont pressure her or smother her, just start doing yuor own stuff without her... she will then notice. goodluck
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