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writes:How can I relax my vagina muscles during sex? Sounds weird as most women are looking to tighten their vagina but I want to relax it. And most men want a tight vagina. However, my partner, which I just recently decided to have sex with (after 2 yrs of him pursuing me) after not having sex for almost 3 yrs said that it is as if I am a virgin and that it is too tight! He is 31 and very healthy and has a huge penis. I never had a problem in all my life like this. I am so horney now and masturbate and have muliple orgasms all the time - I think I am at my sexual peak and am in my early 40's. I can masturbate and have orgasms constantly every day. I have not felt this horney in over 20 yrs. I have had sex with another partner and he had no problems with me - he was 29 and we did it for 2 hrs and it was great. But, I want to be with this other partner who like I said has pursued me for a few years. Just to give u a little backround, I was with my ex for 24 yrs and did not have sex since him for almost 3 yrs. Just recently, something came over me and I finally decided to have sex with my partner who we are crazy about each other. I masturbate and have constant orgasms and that turns him on, but then when he goes inside me he says it is as if he feels like I am squeezing him inside or as if I dont want him, but I do. (I think it is because I am having constant orgasms so it contracts). Please help me with this as I want to be able to relax my vagina during intercourse so I can get crazy with him.
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reader, b.rye +, writes (11 April 2009):
 You ought to go to your closest adult toy store and get a toy that is as similar in size to your partner's penis as possible, and use it whenever you pleasure yourself. The more often you use this, the easier it will get for you and for him. The vaginal muscles will adjust to what the vagina most often encounters (sexually speaking). It may take a little time - week or two or three for some people - but will probably be less mentally stressing than just trying to 'relax' the muscles so you can enjoy the experience more. You may also try using the toy with your partner before he enters so that your vagina is a bit more stretched, allowing it to be more comfortable for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): You will have to really focus at first. Relax as much as possible. If it helps do like a kegel, and the way it feels at the relax part, try to keep your vagina like that. Or if you have ever given birth do like the pushing thing. Just until he can get inside of you for a bit, The vagina is very elastic and you will stretch to accomodate him.
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