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writes:ok i am 18 and i have a very difficult problem. my dad married this lady who is 36 about 3 years ago and now she's my step-mom. and now i have been having fetishes about having sex with her. is this weird or not? what you think about me actually doing it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): We are all wired the way we are wired (and if it could be the you are into woman/girls) that is obviously very hip/cool, but the attraction for her (your step mom) tells me 1) you may be subconsciously angry at your Dad for something and this is the way to get back; or 2) you are simply into woman and you are attracted to her on its own face ---- but in either way ------ you don't act on it you instead ask why you feel the way you do (forum like this counselor, trusted friends)Have you confirmed you are definately into woman (if you are why not find one who is attractive to you but available) and make it a win/win.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): omg.. i can't believe you even had to ask if you should act on it... Let me ask you this.. Do you have a heart?Do you love your dad?Do you have any respect for other people?Do you want to hurt and break apart your family?Do you have any self control? I thnk you know the answer to whether or not you should act on it.. I would like to believe that all people have a certain amount of sense that would tell them what to do in this situation, so i'm just going to assume that you wanted attention and that's the only reason you asked something like this to the public.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (10 April 2009):
 i def wouldnt act on this because could you imagine the heartbreak your dad would suffer if he found out? dreaming about having sex with her yeah, every guy does this. but i wouldnt act on it if i were you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Its not super weird. But do you love your dad? Do you want to hurt him the way that would? Cuz it would.
Plus, you assume that the Step mom would actually do it with you. Perhaps you assume overmuch.
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (10 April 2009):
Well thinking about it is one thing acting it out is a whole other! Now most people would think it's weird and stuff but it's not and you can dream and think about having sex with her ALL you want but u probly don't want to act appon this;) good luck love;)
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