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writes:i am 14 and there is this kid a year older then me and we use to txt alot and flirt non stop. then he asked me to hug him the next day at school so i said yeah...but before we hugged he txtd and said im gonna ask u a question after we hug (ask me out) but then he txtd 2 mis later and said i do like u alot just dont wanna ask you out right now i dont wanna girlfreind. soo a couple days later he txtd me and said do u wanna come over, and i said no, he said why, i told him because i dont want to, this seemed to really make him mad..and we got into a fight he called me bad names and said i was bipolar....now he HATES me and i said sorry so many times and he wont accept my apology he keeps sayng im bipolar...then i said well ill do anything if u forgive me so he said send me a dirty pic (i didnt because i dont do that stuff) and i said no i dont wannt to, so he said guess we arnet freinds BYE! idk what to do i wanna be his freind i like him alot.HELP3333
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reader, forbiddenlove1996 +, writes (10 May 2009):
 you shouldnt say sorry to him you didnt do anything wrong, and if he asked you to even do that stuff than he gets mad your not worth him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Hunny, I'm 22 years old with plenty experience in this kind of situation. This boy seems like a bonehead, punk and pervert. This kid just wants some ass. And you seem like a sweetheart so stick to your guns, be true to yourself and always be a "good-girl" theres nothing more that a guy likes than a good, sweet, smart, down to earth girl. Thats a promise. Kick this loser to the curb. Seriously.
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reader, PrincessSmithee  +, writes (10 April 2009):
 Thi all sounds abit, .. Your really young. and i think this guy is after one thing. He sounds VERYYY immature, its unreal.Just forget him, dont say sorry anymore. Hes not a friend, hes scum.If he wanted you to go round, hes after one thing. And as for the dirty picture, good on you for saying no.This guys a creep. forget him, you will find someone lovely one day :)
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (10 April 2009):
Its all getting too much and it should end now. Hes a guy and his head is not in the right place right now, hes immature and trying to fit it so rather than playing to his game dont even waste your breath in an argument walk away and leave him to it, hell look like the stupid one in the end. People like him arent worth it so dont waste your personality on somebody who doesnt deserve it. Btw your posted as a 22-25 year old yet say your 14- this could be misleading to some.Hope you find the right one for you in time.
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reader, justme..x +, writes (10 April 2009):
 Hi :) ok, this is going to sound like the crappiest advice EVER because you really like this guy, but come on!! He had a fight with you and called you bad names just because you didn't want to go round his??? And as for the dirty picture!!! He is SO not worth your friendship in my opinion!!!By the way, WHY didn't you want to go over? Were you still a bit hurt from his I-don't-want-to-ask-you-out-yet deal, or did you have an actual reason? If you had an actual reason, then it would make his calling you bi-polar even more out of order. It's a serious condition that he shouldn't use as complaint/insult/"hilarious" joke.Hating you after you didn't go over is extreme!! From his point of view, he was probably angry that earlier on you liked him but he didn't ask you; and now when he changed his mind, you didn't want to. That's where the bi-polar comment comes in, but even so, I think that is WAAY over the top.To be perfectly honest, I truly don't think he's worth your friendship, but it's not up to me who you want to be friends with. If you still do want to, then apologise (though in my opinion you shouldn't have to) and then cool it and leave it for a bit so as not to irritate him. But if you want my opinion, you should not apologise. You have done nothing wrong, and if (i expect he will)he comes around again and you become friends again, then good, that's what you wanted, if not ... well, his loss.Good luck, hopefully this helped :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Leave him alone I know it may not be something you want to do but he doesn't respect you. There for he doesn't need the satisfaction of being your friend. You shouldn't feel bad because you were true to yourself and he should've been okay with you saying no instead of getting upset. Friends don't disrespect one another the way he is doing you.
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reader, Niema.x  +, writes (10 April 2009):
 hunni , guys like this are not worth it. I have to be harsh with you but he has not respect for you, hes taking advantage of your age. DO NOT send him any pictures in that nature of yourself , they way you are describing him makes it seem that if you guys fell out again he would use these pictures against you . I know its hard but move on , there are so many nice guys out there who wont treat you like crap. Your 14 , enjoy not having to worry about complicated relationships before you really fall hard in love . Believe me , youl look back on this and think what the hell was i worried about him for ? xxx
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (10 April 2009):
 What a loser!
He obviously just wanted to use you for pictures and 'hugs', without committing to anything!
Forget about him, if he's making a big deal about how you couldnt come round one day hes not worth it.
Stop running after him begging for forgiveness, hes enjoying it, instead ignore him untill hes running after you!
Good luck!
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