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female
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36-40,
*he secret
writes:me and my bf (mr x) have been dating for 2 years but we broke up for 2 months and during that period i dated his best friend (mr k) although it was a long distance relationship i was happy,when ever mr x hurt me mr k was there to help keep me sain.mr k is someone i wouldn't mind spending my life with but the problem is that i like him alot but its not love thats why i went back to my mr x.i know people think im crazy for dating a guy who keeps playin me but i love him and constantly think of him even when im with a new guy.mr x claims he has changed and i want to trust him but i can't.he is still intouch with his ex gf i went through his phone and found some text from the ex asking my bf to screw her.he said he wont sleep with her but trusting a guy who has played you more than once is very hard.i love mr ex but he hurts me and i can't seem to cope with out him i wish he was more like mr k he is always there and doesn't want my money.i do everything for mr x buy him clothes,airtime,give him money etc but he hardly does anything for me.im stuck i don't know who is good for me.is it mr x who hurts me and treats me badly but claims he loves me or mr k who is always there and makes me feel loved although i like him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): I think that the answer is relatively clear on this one. It sounds to me that you already know who is better for you but it's also very clear that you're still very emotionally attatched to mr X. Why? I know you love him because you HAD a good thing going and that's the reason you're still fond but you also HAVE a good thing going with mr K. I know it's hard but I think your head knows what's good for you on this one...
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