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writes:I haven't seen my ex for about 4 years. Well ive seen him about once since then. But that was cus he was out with one of our mates.Well anyway i keep dreaming about him. and in the dream we get back together, and each time its him asking me to get back with him, but in the recent dream i had, i eventually said yes. But then he cheated on me but we remained friends. Im really confused because we don't have any contact anymore.What does all this mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Well researched it for you-type it into google and LOADS comes up. Personally, I think dreams just sort out your day but this is what one website said
To see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.
To dream that your ex-boyfriend is giving you advice about your current relationship, suggests that you unconscious is telling you not to repeat the same mistakes that you had made with this ex-boyfriend.
To dream that you are being massaged by your ex-boyfriend, suggests that you need to let go of some of that defensiveness that you have been putting forth. You may have been putting up a wall or armor around you. You need to learn to trust people again. meanings by DreamMoods.com
To dream that you ex-boyfriend gives you a stuffed animal, suggests that you are seeking for reassuring and nurturing aspects of a relationship. This is not to imply that you want you ex-boyfriend back. Alternatively, the dream could represent some immature relationship which may (or may not) describe the relationship you had with your ex.
To dream that you see your ex-boyfriend dressed in a suit at a hospital, suggests that you have come to terms with that relationship and have completed the healing process.
Hope this helps.(if not check google out for yourself)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): 4 years?? wow. I am so bummed about that. My 2 years seems like a lifetime of having someone stuck in my head, 4 is just excessive. Hope it doesn't happen to me.
But yeah, it means what you let it mean. You could attach alot of importance to it if you so desired, and take it as some sort of holy omen, or just dismiss it as a fancy of the mind.
Though it is remarkable you have been having dreams of him for 4 years.
I think it's safe to say that you miss him on some level. But maybe don't want to admit it so it manifests in dream form.
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