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I am 32 and my boyfriend is 21. Is this a healthy age gap?

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Question - (10 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *ahha writes:

I am 32 and my boyfriend is 21, I need some advice for my relationship if this kind of relationship can have future and can be healthy?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009):

I'm a 21-year-old female and I have to be honest with you...most of the 21-year-old guys I know are not looking for anything but sex. If all you want is a roll in the hay then go for it, but if you're expecting something more lasting out of a young horny guy who probably doesn't know his own mind, you may be setting yourself up for disappointment.

Yes "age is just a number" in theory anyway, and yes you may possibly be dating the 1 guy out of 100 who is the exception to the rule. That's a call only you can make because we don't know this guy. But if you are on a dating site asking strangers to judge whether your relationship has a future, I suspect that already all isn't quite well in your relationship. Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009):

Age is only a number. If you are happy together then I wouldnt fixate on it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009):

I believe age is just a number. If you really like each other for who you are then your age shouldn't matter.

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