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writes:I like a guy. I have no idea why I like him. We don't have any mutual friends but we chat on msn everyday. Every week, we meet up 2-3 times, have dinner together and watch DVD movies afterwards. This has been going on for 2 weeks. Before this, for a month, we sent each other email everyday and had dinner once.He kissed me once, and today we took a nap together. After that nap, I kissed him many times on his eyes, forehead, and cheeks-in a cute way though. He liked it, tried to kiss me, but I didn’t let him. He laughed and bit on my boobs with his lips covering his teeth until I pushed him away. We had our clothes on for the whole time. He also tried to reach under my pants and shirt but I pushed him away. He asked me why I was so scared of him. I told him I wasn’t.In fact, I like being intimate with him. Unlike all the bfs I have had, he is experienced. He gives really soft kisses, and the way he touches my boobs, I don't feel sexual, it is more like comforting. He would actually stop when I push his hands away.Although I like him touching me, I am resisting it because he hasn’t told me he liked me or asked me to be his gf. We hang out often and he has cooked for me. I know him for 2 years but we started talking nearly 2 months ago. My friends keep telling me that I deserve better. They haven’t had a chance to know him but he is older and not that good looking. I introduced him to some of my frds tonight and we went to an event together. He was nice to my friends at that event. After we said goodbye to my frds, I slowed down, turned my head back, and saw my frds gossiping. I think they were concerns that I was with an older guy. I am enjoying his company; at the same time, I am worried: Am I doing the right thing? Am I being easy? Or I am treating him badly? I am not sure what stage we are at since he has never said anything to me. He used to call me “hon” but that was a month ago. Does it seem like he is going to ask me to be his gf?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is 11 years older. He looks ok, but seems a lot older compared to me, and we are the same height. LoL.
I don’t know why I like him. Before I could list tons of things but now I just simply want to see him. He is gentle when he was hugging me, kissing me, but I am thinking that’s because he is more experiences.
Not sure if most of older ppl will be the same
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Nah, I think he likes you and you seem to like him. WHy would you be seen as being easy? It's not like you're going to jump in bed together if he says yeah let's go out.Ask him, tell him your worries and he'll settle them for you-simple as that.He seems nice, how much older than you is he?-That is crucial, if he is that much older than you then I'm not too sure. Your friends are just looking out for you.Also, I don't think he's necessarily going to ask you to be his girlfriend, but just spend more time with you implying that he is serious about you. If you enjoy his company, then there is nothing wrong with dating him if that is what you want-at this stage I don't see the harm, but make sure you are serious before sleeping together or he may consider you as just a shag buddy-i doubt it but it could happen.Best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAfter that nap, I took him to my work for 15min. We were alone in a room and he whispered into my ear asking me if it would be weird if we made out there. I gave him a weird look and he was laughing. Do you think he sees me as a potential sex partner or a gf material?
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