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Boyfriend cums too quickly. What can we do?

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Question - (10 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2009)
A male Germany age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I were about to have sex two days ago and he ejaculated very quickly. It didn't even last much of a minute. We then tried again fifteen minutes later and the same thing happened. The first time we did it he lasted a lot longer. I finished before he did and all.

What could be the problem?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009):

You must be really hot. Agree with others; just have more sex. He'll slow down after a while.

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (11 April 2009):

natasia agony auntHave a lot of sex. A lot of times. Then he will eventually start going longer.

Obviously he could also start engaging with himself and trying to distract himself, etc., to keep going longer, but that kind of interrupts the experience for him, I'd say.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009):

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What would be good ways for him to last longer?

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2009):

natasia agony auntthere isn't any problem!!! he is just young and, erm, lively, as it were : )

the thing is, that even if it happens quickly, he can go again pretty soon after, i would imagine.

if you have sex twice a day for the next 3 months, he will calm down. that's the only way to do it.

and never look upon something like this as a problem!! it really isn't.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009):

He is probably just young and horney as hell.. nothing wrong with him at all.. I had that problem too when I was young. In time he will last longer.. he needs to learn how to prolong it. When I first starting having sex i would cum quickly too but now i can last forever.. its about training your mind and body. Stop yourself just as your about to cum, wait till the feeling goes, then start again. Eventually he will last longer and longer. Or just make him come first, wait a while, then have sex. Or wear 2 condoms!!

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