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Three star crossed lovers

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Question - (10 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 April 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

so im married and i think i really like my buddy in the marines, he is in iraq and makes it a point to call me almost everyday. my husband and i have had close calls of divorces lately and were trying to work it out. im confused.

i grew up with marines boy and we've always been close when i got married we lost touch and eventually got bk in touch.

im a little confused. my husband sometimes doesn't know i exist.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009):

Look, Theres love between a man and woman which ultimately involves sex at some point :-)

Then there's love between your family which doesnt, Nothing wrong with loving a male female friend but in my honest opinion I have been friends with very few women that i didnt want to get intimate with.

Still if you don't want to be intimate with marines boy then its not worth breaking your marriage over.

Have you talked to your husband about how you feel, Maybe your putting the emotional side of your marriage on Marines boy and the intimate or physical side on your husband.

You haven't mentioned what you really want?

Sorry I cant give you a straight answer but then love is a weird and complex and wonderful thing,

Elpigaro

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009):

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o yeah, i love my hubby very much. after reading the question, it was not clear. what im lookinb for is......is it wrong to love another person when being married, even if its just close to loving a brother???? i think he loves me he mentioned feelings for me and wat not.

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