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writes:I'm on birth control and he pulls out but am I still running a high risk for pregnancy???And I was wondering if anybody had some good tips on bringing up the idea of a condom to him...especially because we have been involved sexually many time before this without a condom. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): If you're on the pill, taking it properly, don't worry about it. He doesn't even need to pull out. Let him orgasm in you. You're getting obsessed. Need something else to worry about. If you're not sure of sex hx (you never really know), make him wear a condom for your health. But if you think he's reasonably a good guy, honest, better if he's been tested, just have fun and relax.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (10 April 2009):
Just say it.
"I had a pregnancy talk at college and it's made me paranoid. I want us to start using condoms."
If he bitches about it then he dosen't care about you.
You should ALWAYS be in control when it comes to this kind of thing. It's tough on guys but since they don't get the stretch marks, the constipation, the agony of child birth, the ruined figure, the smelling and dealing with liquid poo at 4am and EVERYTHING else....
They don't get to choose.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, malteser +, writes (10 April 2009):
 Remember that it is your body and you are most at risk from pregnancy. He is the man and you are the one who may have to deal with the trauma of getting pregnant and deciding if you want a baby. If he wants to have sex with you then he must respect you and your decision to make him wear something. Go to the doctors or a local sex clinic and they will give you free condoms. then discuss this with your partner before you have sex. If he listens and agrees then he respects you. If he dosent then you are with the wrong guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhaha im not so much against it but just a little spooked as of late i guess? (there just recently a pregnancy talk at my college)
but thanks so much for the ideas : )
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): That's tough.You shouldn't have given him the goodies unwrapped if you are against it. He might have difficulty with this. Men have trouble going backwards. But if it is very important to you, then bring it up. Best way would be to threaten him with children I suppose. Saying that birth control doesn't always work, or make up a story about a girlfriend of yours that was on birth control and still got pregnant.It may or may not work though.. Like I said men have trouble going backwards
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