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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have got myself into a situation at work with a guy. We have been flirting for about 2 years, he is always making sexual comments, we have never been out together but we get on, he has just never asked me out, last year he told me we wanted different things when he just wanted a bit of fun. So I just assumed we were then friends, but over the last five months we have been getting on really well, again a lot of flirting, and about a month ago we kissed (fully on), he sent me a text saying he enjoyed it and would love to do it again, the biggest mistake I made was letting it happen at work, nothing has happened since then, again just the flirting and looks, i am taking it that he just as before wants a bit of fun, I really really like him and don't want to lose our conversations (he is the only person that really speaks to me a work) and i did enjoy kissing him but i do want more, I am a virgin and i think he can tell that, i mean if he was that interested he would have asked me out by now, right. So what can I do now, I don't want there to be an atmosphere every time we see each other, how do i tell him i am not into just fun but i want us to remain friends or at least pretend as i don't want everyone finding out how silly i have been.
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