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*aykel
writes:Okay, I'm 17 about to turn 8 in July.I dated my ex for 4 years and we just broke up in november.. It was really hard on me. I have become depressed and just broken. He hated me for the longest time and didn't talk to me, for reasons.. Well we talk now and he wants to hang out,but the thing is he wants to have sex. When we dated we never had sex and now he wants me to be his first and I want him to be mine. I am soo nervous I don't know what to expect. I don't know anything about having sex really. Can anyone help me? Like explain the first time to me, like how bad will it hurt and all the things that could happen?? Thanks :o]Oh by the way.. I would say I am kinda small down there and I can barely get a tampon in.. Will that effect anything??
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): For what its worth,Dont give your virginity to someone who has broken your heart in the past. Maybe in the corner of your mind you think it might get him back. It will likely not.You deserve better, in years to come you want to remember the person who you gave your virginity to and have a lot of really good memories before during and afterward.This is my two cents, As far as being small, the key to that is foreplay and time, lots of fore play and lots of time spent having sex without t just being penetrative sex, kissing touching, fingering, all of these are things whih your body responds to and also things which will make you feel loved and respected and cherished. Heres the kicker though it is hard to be skilled at these things unless you are really in tune with the person whom you are doing them to.I hope this helps,Elpigaro
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reader, niki20 +, writes (10 April 2009):
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (10 April 2009):
 I'm not sure that it would be wise of you to surrender your virginity to an ex-boyfriend who now requires sex for hanging out. You will not likely harness his attention very long after you give in to his demands.
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reader, kaykel +, writes (10 April 2009):
kaykel is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks :o]
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): go to sexinfo101.com
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reader, niki20 +, writes (10 April 2009):
being is how you are small down there its going to be a bit painful. my first time didn't as for i was a gymnast and the tears the part that keeps you a virgin. you could possibly bleed and be sore for quit sometime afterward. make sure to use protection. condom etc.......just be relaxed. it will hurt but after a while it should be ok. make sure to use a lubrication so its not as rough. m good luck
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