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anonymous
writes:Hi guys im a bit stuck hear,i split with my ex last year but have stayed friends, anyway we where sleeping together still after 4 months after spliting, anyway he now has a gf and she works nites, so whenever shes not with hi, he flirts with me, example the other day he called me melons like he used 2 when we where together, rubbed the poolcue up and down my leg, and then his leg, he also touched my boob, saying he wants 2 play with my boobs, then he flicked my boob with something that left a mark which he made clear he done it and had 2 touch it 2 show people He was basically flirting his pants off, and then he said ive got 2 go she will be home soon what the f**kAny way people said oh look at them to rekindeling there love,Anyway we talk on the phone still everyday and have great conversations, and yesterday he said i would love to suck him off but i said no and he keept asking that to me, But then yesterday he said infront of his gf hows ur tit so she does no about it and i did feel real strange in front of him nad her yesterday when everything like the flirting happened plus he hardly spoke 2 me, But hes also told my friend that theres nothing more going on between us part from friends then he acts like this And hes also said to me that this new gf of his could be the one could she really be the one when hes like this to me Any advice on why hes doing this to me and maybe does he like me stillOr does he rally think a lot of his new gf im really confused at the moment
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reader, Niema.x  +, writes (10 April 2009):
 omg!
This guy sounds like an asshole , you need to move on . Hes obviously a player and using the both of you too see what he gets out of it . No offemce but neither does he care for you or his girlfriend.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (10 April 2009):
 He knows you still like him and he is playing mind games with you, he loves the attention he gets from you, and knows he can string you along and flirt with you and if he said the right thing you would jump in to bed with him.
He probably does have feelings for this poor girl and he will do the same to her when he splits up with her. I'm guessing your break up was his idea and not yours?
I think you are his "plan B" if this girl doesn't work out he knows that his needy ex will be there waiting to be walk over again.
GET SOME SELF RESPECT!! Don't let him act like this with you he is using you both and he will not be the one to get hurt because of it (Unless you have a big brother)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Hi there.. firstly did he end the relationship originally? And also do you want him back and if so does he know this? Im assuming by the fact your even asking these questions that you do want to get back with him?
Regardless of all this he is obviously taking you for a bit of a ride. Lets face it.. if he wanted you, he would be with you right? Also if he already has a girlfriend and is acting like this with you then surely you can see that he cleary has no respect for the person he is supposed to be with. If you guys where to get back together he would only find somebody else to "flirt" with.
Find someone better who isn't already in a relationship. At the minute hes trying to have his cake and eat it.
My advice is to get rid, move on, find somebody who you can trust.. dont let him have you both, which is what he's trying to do at the minute. Sounds like to tw*t to be honest!
Good luck.
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reader, megs1985  +, writes (10 April 2009):
Sweetie...this guy is no good. I know you maybe don't want to hear this but you would do best for yourself if you just recognized this and moved on .
He is ruining your confidence as well as leading you to believe that this is ok for ppl to treat you this way, it is not. You could have a guy that never makes you feel this way.
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