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anonymous
writes:I've had a FWB relationship going on now for about 8 months. He is aware that I have seen other people...and I know he is too. My problem is that I have extremely intense feelings for him. I know he is aware of my feelings to a point. I have thought about ending this because I'm very afraid of being hurt, but we have an amazing friendship and talk everyday. I would hate to lose that. A few days ago...we were having sex and right in the middle of the act he said "oh god....I love you so much." I didn't respond. We've told each other I love you...but it always seemed casual. This is weighing on my mind heavy. I want to talk to him about it but I have a feeling he'll just act like it was no big deal. Sorry...but to me those are strong words and considering how much I really love him...it bothers me. Should I just try to forget it or what?
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reader, eddie  +, writes (10 April 2009):
 Why don't you look at the good side of this and accept that you've found someone to love. Many people spend a lifetime trying to find someone to love. What are you afraid of? What are you hiding from?
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reader, sexyscorpio  +, writes (10 April 2009):
The best thing to do is to ask him straight- but without referring to the incident- otherwise it would give him leeway to say it was 'just in the heat of the moment'- you might be surprised he could reciprocate your feelings-
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