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writes:Im at the end of my teather here!Ok basically I have been talking with this guy for ages now, and hes lovely and made it quite clear he likes me, he got me a gift for xmas, we talk almost everyday etc etcAnyway we went to a party together and ended up getting with each other, and not just that we spend the night cuddled up with each other, so a bit more than a quick snog if you get me.Anyway since then things have been a little wierd... I may be paranoid but I get the feeling we are talking less and things are a little more strained. But thats been on and off. Anyway for the first time in a long while we went a day without talking! Yes I know, not a big deal, we are busy people (he usually texts/calls me at night or something), this was saturday. So sunday night i texted him and all was good. Monday I got no texts but I thought I would leave it as Im keen but not clingy! Tuesday and Wednesday I was out at parties, but I still got no messages, which I thought was a little strange as we had been talking all the time recently. Thursday night I checked my phone and saw I had a call made on tuesday to his phone, and at the time I was at the party, so I assumed my phone, being a touch screen had accidently rang him or something, the call was about 8 minutes and I dont know whether he picked up or i left a message (all he would have heard was music anyway). So then I send him a message apologising for ringing him and explaining about my phone and I got no reply (he has unlimited texts) so maybe he lost his phone or something, it just seems strange he hasnt contacted me or anything as he always would do in the past, and if hes gone off me, well its happened very abruptly! Im a bit confused really... hes always been a good friend to me and even if hes decided thats all he wants it to be (I really hope not!) I didnt expect him to avoid me! Can anyone tell me whats going on with him?? I cant understand boys lol Thanks!! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnonymous- He goes to boarding school in the week, but we do see each other a fair bit, and of course texting is a big thing when we cant see each other. He does seem to lack effort sometimes, but hes a teenage boy...
He does lovely things for me, like he got me a valentines day card, and other little things like that, not to mention spending 30 quid on perfume! Hes always been the keen one... and we get on great when we see each other in person, hes lovely and having been good friends for such a long time, I miss his company, and I would have liked to think he would feel the same way
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know it seems that way.. but I was only at this party with 2 close friends and they would never ever do that, and they were never out of my sight! Also, my phone was down my bra for the start of the night, then I put it in my friends bag, which she had on her al night, and like I said she wasnt out of my sight and I trust her.
It was a club, so there were no quiet areas, and everyone had to shout into their phones to make themselves heard. I remember I was a little upset that night because of this whole situation, but I didnt mention it out loud, although we may have be talking about how confusing guys are! But im pretty sure that he wouldnt have heard anything, we couldnt really talk much in there ourselves!
And no I wasnt chatting up any boys either, it sounds crazy but im not interessted in anyone else right now. Mad eh? Thanks ArmyMedic :) x
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (10 April 2009):
 This 8 minute call that you didn't make... Did anyone else have access to your phone? Could anyone have made a prank call in that time? Or is there a chance he over heard you saying something dodgy at the party... Talking about him to your mates, chatting up another guy etc?
This sounds like what ever has caused him not to call you has stemmed from that phone call.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Is this mainly a phone/text relationship? Not seeing each other regularly in person is a big deal when both people are single and usually indicates lack of interest on one end. Does he ask you out and pay for dates? Does he make plans with you on a regular basis?
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