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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Chosing between my friend and this guy I like...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - my problem is that there is this guy who my friend likes. but the thing is that she knows i like him too, and have liked him for two years since i was in the seventh grade and he was in the eighth grade. now i'm a freshman and he's a sophmore. well anyway she flirts with him ... (107 words)

What are the most reliable tell-tale signs that a man is attracted to a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age - What are the most reliable tell-tale signs that a man is seriously attracted to a woman? I've read books, magazines, web stuff etc. etc. over the years and I'm still none the wiser! Sometimes I think a man is attracted to me or fancies me only to realise he's just being ... (89 words)

How are people attracted to other people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this question may sound very dumb, but it keeps coming up in my head....How are people atracted to other people? i like this guy i am very much atracketed to him, and he is atracketed to me. but how? it hard to explain.... feel free to share your thoughts..... im just ... (57 words)

Is he playing this game because he's wondering if I like him? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there! This last Saturday, I went to Homecoming with three of my girlfriends - all of us dateless - and kind of "bumped" into this guy that I sit next to in Spanish class. During class, he usually will tease me a bit, or at least start small conversations with me. Whenever ... (349 words)

Both married to other people but we have been having these strong feelings for one another! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

21 October 2008 (M)

age - hi i have been married for over 25 years and have always loved my wife. recently i have met a married woman who we both get on very well. nothing has occoured yet but we have both spoke about our feelings for each other.but both agreed we have each got a lots to lose. i do... (111 words)

Do I wait for him to kiss me...or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - this guy who i have known for about a month now at college is coming to my flat tommorow, we have been texting each other all the time and we are always flrting when we are together, we are going to watch a film and have a drink!! i want to kiss him but how do i do it in a not ... (148 words)

She's 'kinda seeing someone'...should I stay interested or just end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met a girl a few weeks ago and really like her. I asked her out, she said she would love to go out, but she was kinda seeing someone. Understandably I was very disappointed, but a few days later she texted me a random "how you doin?", ever since then we have been texting ... (151 words)

Why did he have this affair? What was he thinking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) age 51-59 - My husband had an affair after meeting someone on the Plentyoffish dating services, well it has been quite the ordeal trying to forgive him, I never thought I would be in this situation, my marriage I thought was wonderful, he was always there for me running my bath waters ... (140 words)

After a whirlwind courtship, he suddenly decided to end it..what happened?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I am 57, female. I recently started dating a guy whom I met 40 yrs ago. He said he had the biggest crush on me when I was in high school, so we had a couple of dates and he said all the right things, we spent lots of time together and our relationship was unbeliev... (159 words)

I'm not sure I wnat to marry her. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

21 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay you may remember me, the guy with the fiancee' with the visa. She wasn't sure if she wanted to marry and I didn't know what to do since we only have 90 days to marry. Well now that she is here she does want to be my wife and get married but now, ironically, the role has ... (218 words)

How come he used me and not her? How do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really depressed and therefore i decided to open my heart to someone as this situation is totally eating me from inside...well last christmas i went for a holiday at a friends to improve my english and met this really great guy. at first i ignored him as i liked him so ... (624 words)

My husband wants me to have sex with another man?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i need an opinion. i've been married to my husband for 13 years, my husband can't stop thinking about me having sex with another man. we agreed to try swinging a few times even though i was back and forth about it i tried it for him, after experiencing it i told him that it ... (367 words)

Could I be prosecuted for this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

21 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I got in a relationship at the beginning of this year after we had been dating we started to do sexual things to each other a month later I myself turned 16 but we didn't stop our sex life. A couple of days ago we fell out and my partner's parents didn't agree that we so... (81 words)

My boyfriend acts like my friend, but that's it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I really need help! I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over a month, and I thought it was going really well. He always texts me, telling me that he loves me, and when he texts me he says the sweetest things. But then I suddenly realized last week, he NEVER talks ... (134 words)

I'm not allowed hugs from my friends yet my boyfriend is???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is just about my boyfriend. He flirts and slaps other girls bum's, and hugs them and expects me to be fine with it, but then when it comes to me always hugging other people he gets really jealous and comes up and pulls me away and starts hugging me etc..., like today he ... (329 words)

I feel turned on by my uncle!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is so gonna sound weird and a little sick, but if anyone has some advice I would appreciate you send me a message back. Me and my uncle have been close since I was a baby. I'm turning 17 and he is turning 40 this year. Since I was 14 he has been treating me diffr... (167 words)

Why don't my parents like me...?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and the youngest in my family. Sometimes I feel forgotten or like my parents don't really care about me. Throughout my childhood I've always felt different and like I don't really belong. My parents get mad at me easily. I remember when I was about 8 or 9 my mom ... (400 words)

How do I tell my dad I HATE the kickboxing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a really stupid question sorry :( But I have joined a kickboxing class and I really don't like it. You have to do 40 press ups not stop, and 100 situps and countless other things. This is hard with d cup boobs ! But my dad really likes the fact that I go and he do... (118 words)

Strange vagina!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a teen and I have had my fair share of boys, I have messed around like kissing etc and I'll do anything to him but as soon as he goes to touch me I hesitate and tell him to stop. There is a reason for this, I believe I have a weird vagina. I'm 100% sure I have. I have... (90 words)

Now he won't go out with her and wants to date me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Something happened today which is totally going to ruin my last year at school! My best friend swept me away from everyone else to ask me advice about he and this girl. I'm very protective of him but have decided, despite feeling a little jealousy (nothing I haven't smothere... (416 words)

I recently found out my cheated on my 10 years ago. My love for her has now completely gone.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

21 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I found out recently that 10 years ago, my now wife had a drunken one night fling with a co-worker. She was drinking a lot and for some crazy reason thought that I wasn't in love with her any more. She did the classic 'after it happened, I realized how much I loved you'. It ... (127 words)

A year on and I can't get over my gay boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am gay, had a boyfriend for 4 years - I went away for a year and when I got back things weren't the same at all - we had totally grown apart, so I ended it. It's now been 7 months and all I can do is think about him - I think about him each and every day. I know it was my ... (158 words)

I'm still tormented after being sexually abused as a child 7 years ago...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - As a child I was sexually abused. It started from the age of 12 I think and what happened to me as a child has most definitely affected me as an adult. I find it difficult to make friends and find it hard to talk to people. I don't really know if this is one of the side-effects ... (156 words)

Why is my boyfriend's mate saying he loves me???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I need help. I have been dating my recent boyfriend for 11 months and am very happy with him, however recently we had a stupid argument and split up for a couple of days. During those couple of days one of his best mates started texting me asking me to meet him and was ... (125 words)

How would you interpret his comment in your point of view?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I went to dinner at somebody's house where there was wine. We met a new person (older man) who we had to walk with on the way. My husband didn’t like his company and I didn’t mind his company. After he left on his way and we on ours he told me that the man was ... (215 words)

Help! should I take him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - help! should i take him back? I broke up with my ex 2 months ago, and still can't get him out of my head and love him to pieces, we where together for a year, then he decided to steal my jewellery worth thousands and sell it, to pay a debt off he owed to his auntie. Obvioul... (154 words)

I need some female advice....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - sorry, this is a long one.... So, this girl and I at work have become fantastic friends. We only met 6 months ago, but it all happened so quickly, we just tell each other everything, and understand each other so well. She has a long term BF, who she loves. Anyway, recentl... (260 words)

Should I date him to find out if I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and a thirty year old graduate student at my school went with me to the movies. I wasn't sure it was a date but he paid and kissed me on the cheek afterwards. He acted like a perfect gentleman and suggested another movie we could see and then he said " I really had a ... (146 words)

Is he just a friend or can he be more? How can I find out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age - Sorry - this is a long one but I need a hepful opinion really badly! I met a man (I'll call him 'L') nearly 3 years ago and we've gradually become firm friends; he works in offices that I occasionally visit as part of my job (so we don't work together but our paths cross from ... (616 words)

Could I really be bi-polar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a little concerned, I have taken several online tests to test for bipolar, and all of them say there is a great chance that I have it. Should I take this seriously? And do I need to see a doctor about it? I'm not sure how credible the tests are, therefore I'm unsure whether ... (69 words)

I'm falling for my flatmate and unsure of his intentions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've never used a site like this before as I've always prided myself on being a sensible level-headed person who can work most things out by myself. However at the moment I am just irrationally fixated on this one problem and I really hate how it effects my life. Last... (985 words)

I want my husband to compromise more with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 32 years old and my husband is 45. I find that one he acts like he doesn't remember important conversations unless it has something to do with something he likes. He only satisfies me 50% of the time when we're in bed. He always says things like, "you weren't born yet", ... (154 words)

Can I get pregnant by doing this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so my boyfriend and i still havent had sex, and we have been together for a year and six months. well, we now have made some moves. like dry humping. i keep my pants on (which are sweats) and he pulls out his dick, so he can feel it better. he has never cum or anyt... (86 words)

Husband on the 'down low'!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Apologies if this is long; but it's really worrying me and I need to get it out in the open. I'm 33 and my husband's 36. We have two sons, one aged 12 and the other who's 14. I live down the road from my best friend, and my children are best friends with my best friend's ch... (482 words)

Could he get in trouble for dating me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hi. um, my problem is that i really like this guy who lives next door to me. well that part's not the problem. the problem is that i am only turning fifteen this saturday and that he is turning eighteen in three months. i have no idea what to do, because couldn't he get in ... (80 words)

I'm worried I'm missing out on something huge this weekend.....or do I really wanna jsut bump into the ex?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5872 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

- My prob sounds a bit silly but its getting me down!! Ok, theres a big event on saturday night which EVERYONE is going to except me. My ex, his new gf, my mates and basically everyone is going. I cant go cos tickets have sold out and couldnt go even if they werent cos Im very ... (156 words)

I need married men's advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need married men advice( and wifes also) Ive got people saying(with my last question i am too "motherly" to my husband and that is why he takes me for granted and never shows me any respect. I stay at home with the kids and keep up with all the household chores. I dont want ... (114 words)

Is it cheating to go out with this new guy? The one I've been dating for months has made it clear I'm not his girlfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating someone for 6 months now. And he definately makes it clear that I am not his girlfriend,he says we shouldnt rush into things. But says if I see anyone else then its over. I just wonder if I should give it more time. And now there is a nice man that seems to ... (117 words)

I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i have been with my boyfriend for over two years now and i"ve known him since i was really young. Everything was going good in our relationship and we planned on getting married and having kids in the future like five years from now. Well i work in a small restaurant and ... (205 words)

Is there any way of telling when you are truly in love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey This is just a quick question but it is one i have been wondering about for quite a while now. Is there anyway of telling when you are truly in love ? Thanks x... (44 words)

We fight a lot over stupid, petty things, we don't know what to do about this, any insights?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months. Our problem is that we fight a lot. Usually it is petty fighting about stupid things. His main complaint with me is that I am too quick to attack. For example, if he says something I don't like or am frustrated I tend to ... (160 words)

Is she playing with me or could she really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5872 days ago

21 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello all, there is a girl which i know in my school for a week. first we made eye contact and laughed so i walked to her and talked and i knew her just her name cuz she was in hurry to go in bus. then next time i walked to her but she made her self she doesnt know me ... (280 words)

Any advice on my rocky relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for nearly five months and it has been the most rocky five months I've had in a very long time. The thing is I always forgave him for the things he did even though he constantly upsets me. I thought he was changing last week when he finally asked me ... (391 words)

Now that I've let him go, will he come back to me after we spend some time apart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hello everyone, ive been having trouble dealing with my recent breakup. two months ago my ex broke up with me out of the blue because he said he felf 'disconnected' from me and that the distance between us was too much (im going to a university in the city and hes still in the ... (275 words)

Should I just accept this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (M)

age - Am I being unreasonable? My partner and I are both widowed,I am 72 she is 65. We have been together for 11 years and are extremly happy.we bought a house together 5 years ago and we have no money problems.I moved north to the area where my partner lived to be close to her ... (423 words)

I miss company after I broke up with my boyfriend, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im finding my life at the moment really hard,when i was with my boyfriend i was constently out with him or over his house or talking to him on the phone,where now i hardly go out, hardly talk to him and i hate not sharing a bed with anyone, i was with him 8 months and am t... (103 words)

Where do I find the strength to walk away as even my 3-year-old daughter suggests, seeing how he upsets me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am at my wits end... I have been in a relationship for 2 and half years, most of which has been bad, but I can't seem to walk away and when I do decide to get my head together he comes back and wants me again, I love him so much but can't figure out why?? He is v... (431 words)

He hardly talks to me at school but is talkative and friendly at snowboarding, why could this be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bad problem, im totally in love with this boy, he does kind of know it seen as all my friends told him, but this was a few months back. He is really really shy and he is a professinal snowboarder and does not want a girlfriend. Although he started emailing me on m... (162 words)

I had a one night stand while we were on a break, I told him after we got married and he is now furious!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a one night-stand while my boyfriend and I were on a break. That continued on to a relationship that lasted a few months. I married my boyfriend after 3 years. I told him about the relationship but not one night-stand. We have now been married for 9 years and now he knows ... (93 words)

I'm finding it hard to act naturally around my best friend and his girlfriend, because I fancy him! How to cope with the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am feeling a bit confused right now. I have recently returned to my home town after an extended period away in America. I have met up with lots of old friends, including my old best friend. The problem is that I feel more than friendship for him now, and of course, he ha... (178 words)

I love her, but am now questioning how the relationship began...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

21 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - May of 2006 I stayed at my friends apt for three weeks until I found my own apt for the summer. She is a girl, and we both liked each other at different times in our three year friendship. Almost immediately before I moved in, she was broken up with by her BF of seven mont... (782 words)

Does he disrespect me because I was a lap dancer?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have been together 6 months. Well before i met my boyfriend i was a lapdancer which he has always known from the start of our relationship. I made an innocent comment about dancing the other day, which led him to call me a slag, a dirty little tramp and say i ... (114 words)

I'm pregnant and my situation with the father is driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I recently came across this site and found reading other people's similar stories really helped and made me want to get views on my situation. I am 21 years old and was with a manipulative man for 5 years (since i was 16), the relationship was up and down... (1323 words)

Why do I get pain when he thrusts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have had sex for about 7 months now. Recently, when he thrusts, it hurts my stomace so bad around my right hand side, and i mean really bad, but the pain does'nt last, it goes straight away but i get in so much pain. Any ideas what it is?... (54 words)

Should I stop paying the mortgage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

21 October 2008 (M)

age - My Ex-partner lives in the house we own jointly. I have moved out into another property and now pay 2 mortgages. She refuses to pay her half of mortgage and expects me to pick up her tab. I have asked that house be auctioned she refuses; the house is on the market, but not ... (124 words)

Possessive boyfriend that makes no sense!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have recently broken up but he seems to be really possesive over me. He always checks my texts and my phone call list to see who i've been talking to. When im out he'll call me up to see who im with and where i am. One day he'll say to me that he wants me... (134 words)

Am I being unreasonable with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some advice about whether I'm being unreasonable with my boyfriend. He broke up with his ex (who he lived with for a year)in June 2007 after a pretty rocky relationship - he says she cheated on him four times in the year and I know for sure that he can't stand h... (443 words)

LDR: What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a long distance relationship. Normally we send eachother text messages in the morning at lunch and in the vening before going to be. Lately I am increasingly feeling that I am putting more effort into it. Sending mor messages calling and letting him know if I go ... (227 words)

Am I being stupid by making all the effort?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi me and my boyfriend have been split up for about 8 weeks and hes now involved with someone else anyway we agreed to try and stay mates even tho the girl hes now involved with dosent like me one bit, so he says for me to ring him which i do but the thing ive been thinking... (105 words)

Am I taking the right course of action with this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am uncertain whether or not I have been taking the right course of action with the girl I think I am attracted to in uni at the moment. Firstly, I have known her only a month now, and I am not yet suree how much I do like her, so I am being cautious. I think we are get... (252 words)

Any ideas on how to handle my self centered girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) age 26-29 - A lot of my friends (mainly my female friends) hate my girlfriend because shes too self center (she is working on it and trying to be nicer to everyone). My female friends can be really mean maybe even almost disrespectful to her. They even started this rumor saying Im ... (109 words)

Any ideas on what's up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, and we've been talking about getting married next fall for almost 6 months. We've set a date, started looking at venues etc... We are great together, and we've started looking at houses... He needs to travel for a few ... (142 words)

How can I make my periods regular?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I have irregular periods. I get my period every 2-5 weeks and last from 4-8 days. is that normal? what should I do to make it regular? its irritating because I never know when I'm gonna start and I hate starting when I'm at school!... (48 words)

I fell in love in the library - but is he just following me around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i met a guy in my school library, we interacted a bit and i fell in love with him, he also seemed to like me because he wanted us to chat for long, the problem was he was buzzy and i was buzzy as well. when the time came for me to go home i left him in the library and went ... (165 words)

Would I ruin everything if I told him I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Iv been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months now and I have to say that I am totally in love with him, im 28 and have never felt this way before. He is such an amazing person and is so nice to me, my family and friends, I can hardly beleive that iv been so lucky to meet someone ... (113 words)

Why don't my feelings matter to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im having a very hard time trying to earn respect or recieve respect from my husband. We are young and we have been married for three years, and i love him,and respect him...but he never shows me respect! If we get into an argument he will yell at me to shut up and call me ... (286 words)

Is he just trying to keep me sweet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - HELLO guys A bit of a problam hear after spliting with my guy so he can go back to his ex the mother of his child, he said we could stay mates and that he would really like to, but not sure if she would let him be friends with me, He cheated on her once and she never got over... (194 words)

Why does he deny that he masturbates at all hours of the day and night?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, im married to 48 year old man. we just got married just this summer. we have a very strong affection and love to each other as well as very active sex life. lately, i woke in the middle of the night that he is masterbating and he do it again in the morning. yet we still ... (146 words)

I'm attracted to a man who's as old as my dad. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have started a new job with a great position, I think my boss is a wonderful person he has an amazing charisma, strong and powerful but he is 26 years older than I am married with kids:( I'm so confused I admit I like him, I know it is totally wrong but I can't help it. I'm ... (161 words)

'They're not together but spending time together' - what does he mean by that?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone im new to this posting stuff so bear with me, Basically around 2 weeks ago i split with with my guy over the fact he couldnt gt over his ex he always had to see her because of the child they have together, anyway he said we can still be mates, the thing is hes now ... (238 words)

What's the strange smell?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age - i have noticed a clear discharge that i get everyday, which is normal, but lately i have been noticing that it smells a bit odd, like smelly feet or something, but not really like sweat. its hard to explain. i am a virgin, clean down there every night with a very mild cleanser, ... (70 words)

Based on her past - can I trust her? Can she trust me?

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21 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 27, she's 23. We met six years ago and had a beautiful baby girl three years later while she was in her last year of high school. A year later we split up because of differences and infedelity on both our parts. The fight was so huge that both our parents got involved. We ... (147 words)

Should I consider getting back with my ex?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago. The main reason was that I didn't trust him and then he moved to another city so that was even worse. He wouldn't text me or call for ages and didn't ask me to go see him or suggest he wanted to come see me. The reason I didn't ... (332 words)

He was a bad boyfriend - what makes him think he'd be any better as a friend?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Could someone please tell me why my ex boyfriend is so keen on being friends? We broke up one year ago- after I found out he'd been lying to me and seeing other women. He calls several times a day, calls when he has good news. I just don't see the point anymore. He was a ... (83 words)

I'm a 25 year old girl and have the hots for a 60 year old guy.

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I am a 25 year old girl who is completely infatuated with a 60 year old man. Why? He is just so adorable, charming, and very attractive. I work with him, and at first did not care to be in his company because he is so uptight, anal, and moderately obsessive comp... (1464 words)

Does he have a right to be jealous of my guy friends?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy and I have been hooking up for 8 months. He knows that I have feelings for him, but he said that he doesn't have feelings for me and is still in love with his ex. When he saw me walking/talking with my ex-boyfriend and other guy friends, he got jealous, wouldn't make ... (109 words)

How can I 'roughen up' our sex life?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, recently I found about my boyfriend had a few flings about a year ago, and was into really kinky painful sex. He would wake up covered in bruises and bite marks. My boyfriend and I don't have a realstionship like that, ours is passionate and gentle... I feel as though ... (95 words)

Does hanging out with more than one guy make me a bad woman?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi..i have recently just hang out with three guys.we all had a drink together.i was told to hang with more girls than guys.but before i hang out with them i told them that I wasn't a hoe or a slut.they accepted that but i kinda felt left out at times because they were fellas ... (150 words)

I'm a virgin and worried that I will bore my boyfriend in bed... how hard is it to make a guy climax?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, i feel kinda wierd asking this, but my boyfriend and i are talking about sex, im a virgin, and he definately isnt. i want to be good for him, and not be known as the boring virgin who just lied there. i have no idea what to do. how hard is it to make a guy, uh,... (135 words)

I wish to have a child with my hubby before it's too late but he won't cooperate...

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi me and my hubby are both 39.We have children from past relationships but i really want one with him before its to late.I did a home ovulation test and its fine and ive been to the doc for blood test, that was fine too.My hubbys home test came back neg low sperm count.He was ... (147 words)

I'm in love with a gay guy!

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21 October 2008 (?) age 26-29 - What do you do if you love a guy...and this guy is gay? I told him i loved him AFTER he told me he was gay.....so im tellin him theres no point to say what i want to say. I gave in and said what i wanted, when i did a few minutes later he said he had to go..... Im confused, hes ... (89 words)

Do I do him a favour and let him lose his virginity with me?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ugh, so i used to do alot of stuff with this one guy right? okay well, we were like seriously so close to goin out like it could've happenend but didn't. drama happenend. so we never went out just did sexual stuff..and we haven't talked for a while. during that time i found a ... (133 words)

How can I manage the practicalities of my long-distance relationship?

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21 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have an 18-year-old girlfriend (I'm 17) who lives in England, and I live in Nevada. I love her with all my heart; I truly know I'm in love with her and I can honestly see myself spending the rest of my life with her. The problem is, even though I could go to college near to ... (219 words)

He adores me but why won't he have sex with me?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - a friend gave me good advice and made me see the truth in my relationship. how do i get enough courage to take her advice? i've been in my relationship and my boyfriend has nothing to complain about. i am extremely patient with him, i don't nag or argue with him, maintain... (289 words)

My wife doesn't want to have sex and dismisses all my suggestions!

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21 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife has never been greatly interested in sex. Now, after 13 years of marriage and her suffering a bout of depression and flirting with a work colleague, she tells me she is sexually frustrated - doesn't want to have sex with me - but wants to sty with me. She dismisses all ... (72 words)

Air trapped in the vagina during doggy style - any suggestions? Anyone else had this problem?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - When my husband and I have sex doggy style - sometimes he gets so much air in there it hurts for hours! I don't know what I can do about this. I haven't told him this before - I didn't want to make him feel bad cause I know hes not trying to hurt me - but this time it hurt so ... (97 words)

We swapped phone numbers, but should I have been more decisive about future plans?

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21 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Real simple. I have just asked this girl out to have coffee with me. When I approached her she met eyes with me and smiled widely. I engaged her in conversation and after a short stroll and more eye contact and smiling I asked her to have coffee with me. As soon as I asked ... (183 words)

My boyfriend is bothered that I'm "beating" him in the career field. Is there anything I can do to support him?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are in the same profession, and he's been having a bit of a tough time lately. He's someone whose self-image is closely connected to his academic and professional success, and for most of the time I've known him (we met in grad school), it's bothered him ... (140 words)

Should I leave before my husband does to be the one who has more options?

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21 October 2008 (F) age - Í' m very panicked now. My husband is going though mid -life crises, after 20 and more year marriage. Does it sound very typical? I'm sure it is. He does not have sexual desire,or any other affection, or excitement toward me..Is it any min now ,that he will dump me,and finds a ... (118 words)

Why is it such a big deal to me to think about my boyfriend's sex life with his ex'es?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has had two girlfriends before me, both of which were long-term relationships. Naturally, he was intimate with both of them. And I totally understand that. However, it really bugs me to know the extent of their physical relationships. During our conversations, his ... (167 words)

Should I get a divorce or stick it out?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been considering a divorce for some time (years). My husband and I have been together for almost seven years and he has a son from a previous "one night stand" that we see often because of me. He lives on the other side of the country, but it has been me who has pushed ... (639 words)

I told my girlfriends secrets to my friends, and she's furious!

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21 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend (Im almost 18 and shes 17) made me promise not to tell that she stuffs her bra and wants breast implants when she finishes high school. To make a long story short, I was hanging out with my friends (most of them are girls who hate my gf because she can be self-... (175 words)

Want to reassure my autistic boyfriend of my ongoing love!

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a seventeen year old with an autistic boyfriend. We've been dating for nine months and I've fallen head over heels, there's just one problem. Lately I've been having a hard time relating to him. He hasn't ever really talked about being autstic and now he's been trying to ... (152 words)

My girlfriend wants to give me oral sex but finds it hard because she was molested as a child... any advice?

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21 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, my girlfriend and I are in a rather unique situation. We've been doing sexual things for just over four months now. I've given her oral and fingered her, and she's touched me. We have never had sex and she has never given me oral. Here's the unique part. When she was ... (333 words)

My boyfriend keeps getting hit on by his ex, Should I be worried?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know I'm probably being paranoid, but should it bother me if my boyfriend keeps getting hit on by his ex? (who happens to be the school slut). He only dated her for a couple weeks and made the mistake of sleeping with her. She cheated on him and he dumped her. He complains to ... (191 words)

How do I tell my mum that her boyfriend is my boyfriend's brother?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone.. i know that this sounds like something from a tv show, but hear me out please: I've been seeing this great guy for about 5 months, hes 24 and im 22, and we get along really well. Everything is great, like im thinking id want to marry this guy... Anyway, my dad l... (215 words)

Prob. saying no

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a small issue, there are quite a few guys that like me but i really don't date i prefer being single but with so many school dances and the like, the guys are pestering me to go with them, but i don't attend school dances. It's too loud and everyone is very immature, i ... (94 words)

In College and confused about my sexuality!

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So for as long as I can remember I haven't ever really thought a guy was, "cute," "hot," or anything like that, but I have always thought girls are pretty. I went all through out high school without a boyfriend, and didn't think anything of it. Now that I am in college I find ... (73 words)

Friends and guys and yea

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so i have these stupid friends, or so called"good firends" and they treat me as if they dont know me during school. but when we hang out its like we are bff's and its really pissing me off. i feel like i might be annoying them in a scince but i dont do crap to them, i tried to ... (285 words)

Take a chance & ask her out?

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21 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've known my friend for about a year now. We've grown really close in this time and love each other's company. I've liked her since the time we started talking and I know that she liked me as well. We've both have had hard times and this has brought us closer together... (108 words)

How early is too early to admit love?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I just started going out 3 days ago, and he's already trying to say he loves me! He's 16, I'm 15 and I don't believe that what he's feeling is love yet. I mean it's been a couple days, how is that possible? We hang out almost every day and we have even bef... (147 words)

Advice on giving head?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice on giving head! I gave my boyfriend head two times already but I'm not sure if I'm doing it right. since I was shy to get it out of him. I lied and said I was never going to give him head but he said why not? I just want him to be satisfied. How would I give goo... (85 words)

What is this white,thick discharge?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a 19 year old girl and i have been with the same boy for about three years. i was his first and he was my first! i have alot of discharge but i dont itch down there sometimes it smells and somethimes it does not but it is always in my underwear and it if very thick ... (139 words)

I want to get over him so badly but don't know how! Help, need some advice!

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im very upset at the moment over some guy..we were kind of together for about a month..we just hadnt made it official yet. he even said he loved me and how much he liked me..but then things changed and i was basically just his booty call for about 4 months, as he said he didnt ... (240 words)

I'm in love with this guy, who gave up on me! How can I make him notice me again?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need help. I am in love with a guy that I think may have given up on me. We attend the same college and he has been very nice and attentive. This went on for a year but I just kinda thought he was being friendly (thinking back now, I realize that he did give me hints ... (188 words)

Is he distancing himself from me?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I will try to explain this as best as I can. But first I will let you know the important factor: it's a long distance relationship. I started dating my brother's friend four months ago, although we live four hours away from each other. It's been going great, w... (217 words)

Will he leave his wife after he gets his finances in order? What do you think?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Help!!I am a 40 year old female. I looked up a old love we were 18 we lived together briefly. his parents as well as mine did not like the relationship and eventually he left. i looked him up a few months ago i have never stopped loving him all though we both married other pe... (292 words)

My wife and my father do not get along! What should I do?

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21 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and father don't get along. Both of them are stuborn and I can't take it anymore. My father has a lot of issues. There is no love in his marriage, he doesn't have any friends, he feels like people don't acknowledge him for the person he is, and he has way too much pri... (290 words)

Everyone wants me to divorce him, but I love him so much!

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid , My name is Randee, I married a 42 year old man when i was only 18, and everybody wants me to get divorced. But i love him too much, we also had a baby together. He also did drugs. What should i do?... (47 words)

Could she have liked me before and changed her mind because I was rushing things?

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21 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - She said she didn't like me, however before I asked her out she would try to talk to me all the time and whatnot. Could she have liked me before and changed her mind because I was rushing? And is there any way to get her to like me again?... (51 words)

I'm confused and I really need you to help me decide what to do.

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend sometimes seems like when were not hanging out, it seems like he doesn't like me. Like when we talk on the computer (I know sometimes you can't really tell how people mean to say things) but on the computer, he seems mad at me or like he likes me less. But when... (176 words)

Should I give him back his ring?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay this is going to sound REALLY dumb after my last post I just did... but my bf of 9 months dumped me last night.. He didn't even have the courage to tell me in person, or even through a phone call! He did it over texting, around midnight when he KNEW I was asleep. Is... (211 words)

My parents need to realise we're NOT kids any more!

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, This is a question for my sister. She is turning 21, and having major issues with our parents. They complain of her not acting like an adult, and only thinking of herself. These traits, I see in her, she is decietful and usually will only do something for someo... (710 words)

Could my boyfriend be gay?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this extremely nice thoughtful almost perfect guy, but I can't help to think that he might be gay. He is 32 years old, has never been married and has very little dating experience. He has some female mannerisms such as crossing his legs the way us ladies do, ... (212 words)

Does using tampons mean I won't bleed when I first have sex?

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm just wondering, I'm a virgin and I've used tampons for the past 2 years. Does that mean I won't bleed the first time I have sex with some guy?... (32 words)

He had absolutely no compassion when I told him I was raped.

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - While discussing with my fiancee about when I was raped when younger he couldn't put his arms round me and when I cried he just got angry and said we were in a shitty relationship, does he really love me? or will he abandon me?... (45 words)

I'm afraid of giving a hand job...

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21 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 and I'm not very experienced and I'm hopefully entering my first real kind of permanent relationship with this really nice lad. For some reason I am actually really afraid of giving a handjob! Not so much a blowjob because I've done that once before.. bad experien... (94 words)

We're meeting in 2 months time but I don't know if I'm ready for sex yet.

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21 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - HI, I'm in a relationship and I use to look at a lot of porn. Now that I'm with her I don't, I told her I use to look at porn all the time she didn't. A little bit maybe 2-3 days into the relationship I did look at porn but it did not seem so good any more. We don't have ... (290 words)

Do any women feel it uncomfortable or painful when their clitorus is licked?

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21 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I was just wondering if there are any women out there that get uncomfortable or even feel pain when there clitoris is touched or licked etc. I have been with my fiance for about 6 years now and I really want to know what to do if anything to make this part of hers very ... (73 words)