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I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend so what should I do?

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Question - (21 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *lb writes:

ok so i have been with my boyfriend for over two years now and i"ve known him since i was really young. Everything was going good in our relationship and we planned on getting married and having kids in the future like five years from now. Well i work in a small restaurant and his guy came in everyday and i thought he was really cute and started talking to him. One tuesday night me and my current boyfriend ended up having problems all he would do is come home watch tv and play playstation and i would go to sleep and go bowling. so i went to a party with some friends and invited this other guy to come with and i ended up kissing him. my current boyfriend and i ended up splitting up for about four days and got back together thinking we could work it out. well now i feel as though i haven't had the time to date and look around for the right guy and maybe i met this other guy for a reason. i really do love my boyfriend but i don't want to hurt him again what should i do

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008):

You should not stay in a relationship just because you don't want to hurt the other party. If you are not happy and not totally committed sooner or later the split will come.

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A female reader, tlb United States +, writes (21 October 2008):

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thats the thing i want to do that but i'm afraid to bacause i don't want to hurt him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008):

You are young, maybe you should break up with your boyfriend and enjoy your freedom. Get to know more people and enjoy your youth before you consider settling down and getting married.

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