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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I walk away from boyfriend and ex wife drama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been on an on and off relationship with a guy who has a crazy ex wife in which they have a child together. When we met it was supposed to be a no strings attacthed relationship but we slowly became boyfriend and girlfriend. After about 8mths of this he told me again that he ... (284 words)

The big question... Is he interested???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a member of an online dating service. A guy emailed me and asked if I wanted to chat so I replied and we wrote a couple of lengthy emails to one another. I don't have a picture on the site but he does. We are both 29 y/o and looking for dating. It usually takes... (590 words)

Husband having sex with other men...but he tells me...am I crazy?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age - My husband and I have been married for 25 years and we have 3 great college-age children. We have a great relationship and a good marriage. Recently he has started having sex with older men. He says its just "sex" and he is not gay. He wants me to know this because he ... (158 words)

My boyfriend has invited her round to his flat to see it decorated!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Ive got a niggling problem with my new boyfriend. He has just told me he has been in contact with a woman from a dating site every day for nearly a year, and this weekend he has invited her round to his flat "to show her how he has decorated it" since they have been ... (220 words)

It feels as if we're in a relationship... but we're not! We broke up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Where do i begin.? I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend split up about 7 months ago, and it took me soo long to get over him but with the help of my best male mate i did it. BUT ive got a problem, i think im falling for him. Hes 19 lives with his dad and we'r REALLY close. When... (242 words)

Is coitus interuptus rude?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know a long list of people are going to tell me to use a condom but will ask this anyway. Is it rude for a guy to pull out and cum all over you if birth control wasn't discussed before sex? I say it is and he says it isn't.... (51 words)

He seemed crazy about me, but now says we have no future. Huh?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Am having some trouble understanding a situation - I have had a few bad dating experiences lately and a couple of months ago I met someone I thought I could really like. We started going out and he seemed particularly thrilled with me, I've never had someone make me feel ... (130 words)

This seems odd, or is there a logical explaination?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a weird question to ask. Can someone explain this behaviour, Im so confused! My friend (guy) is acting odd in the past while and Im not sure why. We talk for a little while, almost constant online and texting, and then they will all- of-a-sudden stop talking to me, s... (98 words)

Are we meant to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been "with" my guy for 3 years now. In that time we spent a year "broken-up" but we were together anyways just not officialy you know becuase we wanted to resolve our issues etc. before we went any further now that we are back together it's like we have "arguments" every ... (609 words)

Who should I choose... my best friend or my crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

23 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Yesterday my personal life hit a little snag. I've had a best friend named 'Brian' and crush named 'Nick' for a long time. Well, Brian told me yesterday that he's been in love with me for the past three years and then Nick came up and told me he's been in love with me for the ... (99 words)

How can I tell him I'm crazy about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy for 4 years now and it basically started like he would throw stuff at me and call me names and he'd act like he hated me and now when I see him he doesn't say a word to me. I asked him two summers ago if he liked me and he said yes, then in the winter I ... (215 words)

Dilemma! I can't get him out of my mind and I'm married now...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for almost 2 1/2 years and things have gone relatively well. We have a baby boy that just turned one. I dated another gentlemen before I got married for 3 years and it didn't work out. However I have thought about him every day since I've been married. ... (120 words)

I'm friends with a guy that I adore...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm friends with this guy I adore. His friends say that he likes me but is too shy but his friends constantly hit on me and one even grabbed my behind! Last week they tried to get him to talk to me but he wouldn't I'm wondering if he really likes me! He flirts but that's all! ... (61 words)

I am so angry and frustated about being ignored by someone I genuinly care about.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am so angry and frustated about being ignored by someone I genuinly care about. They ignore my calls, ignore my text messages. I sent them an email to tell them how I was feeling which they responded to. They said they would be back in touch soon to organise meeting up but ... (98 words)

How can I make my husband feel more attracted to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This has happened thrice to me now. My husband shows interest in having sex before I put our son to bed and later when I go take a shower (I always do b4 having sex) and come back all ready for him, he is already sleeping or is just about to sleep. Also, he's been working ... (180 words)

Could holding my breath for 15 seconds affect my unborn baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Will it affect my baby if ocasionally I don't breathe for like 15 seconds.... it's during intercourse... I have stopped but I'm almost four months, will my baby be challenged?... (30 words)

How can I prevent us from arguing all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for approximately 20 months now. We were so happy the first year, but then he starts talking a lot to a girl, one of my good friends, and he says that he thinks she's pretty and sweet and nice. I got jalouse and confronted them both. I lost my ... (285 words)

This guy kissed me (I'm male) and more has happened since!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

23 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and 5 other mates went to South Africa for a holiday which we said that we had been planning and talking about for nearly 3 years. 1 of the guys who came with us was openly gay. He wasn't camp or anything like that lol. The group, myself included, were all pretty cool around ... (468 words)

Why are females more infatuated with their teachers than males?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (M) age 41-50 - After reading a lot of teacher/student problems around here, quite clearly it seems that females more than males fall into infatuation for their teachers. Why is this?... (30 words)

I'm terrified of losing my virginity.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year, and everything is going so well. It couldn't be going better except for one thing; I'm a virgin and am still scared of losing my virginity. My boyfriend has been so understanding, and we talked lots about it, and have ... (189 words)

Will I ever get over the hate for that slut???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I are together now. He had a brief affair with our neighbour who is married. We were all friends. When I caught them together he asked me what about us, well I told him that as long as he was involved with her I would see to it that he never seen our daughter. We ... (125 words)

I really miss feeling depressed, I miss the codine and I miss the attention!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been through a very hard time since I was a kid, my mother was an alcoholic she drank 24/7 but now she's stopped completley and I'm so happy for her but when she was drinking I suffered with depression and I was addicted to codine. I had three different consellers and ... (96 words)

I'm tired of his empty promises.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and been living together for 2. Recently I went into his phone to text myself (couldn't find my phone) and there were messages to and from this girl he used to work with, "Vanessa". We've had arguements before because I never ... (185 words)

I don't know how to stay in my marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) age 51-59 - Hello everyone, I really need to figure out something. I don't know how to stay in my marriage. I tried everything, but my husband is getting worse every day. He is grumpy, is in a bad mood, and terribly unloving. I'm trying to tell him, that it is probably from some ... (189 words)

I don't understand what he wants.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I started dating this guy and we decided we would date other people. For a while we see each other a couple times a week, we talk a couple time a day and he calls me sweetie all the time. Then all of sudden he started pulling away, but he still calls and want to just see me. I ... (64 words)

Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

23 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. but do women like it? or do ... (63 words)

My boyfriend says he is in love with an older woman.

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem and I don't understand what I can do. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and I truly believe that he is my true love. I want to marry him, and spend the rest of my life with him and I've known this every since the day we met. He use to ... (300 words)

How can he be such a coward that he cant tell me its over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age - I was in a relationship with a man for 1 1/2 years. I'm 53 and he's 41. For about the first year we were together we were madly in love with each other and talking about a future together. We haven't seen much of each other for about 6 months because he works 2 jobs and I ... (192 words)

I know its wrong, but the idea of taking away everything but his life is giving me a high.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

23 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My question may seem strange but please answer honestly I really want to stop but I can't. Hi i'm 27 and I have been having an affair with a married woman I met at work. She is a year older than me and has 1 child. We seemed to click straight away. First we were just friends,... (162 words)

He says I scare him because I want a commitment. How do I respond?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating a 52 year old (i'm 43) for 2 months, today he emailed me, he says: I scare him because it seems I'm pushing for a commitment and he's not ready for that right now. How do I respond to that??????... (44 words)

I am feeling so insecure regarding his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for about 7 months now. We fell for each other instantly! He is one of the sweetest men I have ever met, we click so well, that we are now living together. Everything seems to be going extremely well, except one thing. He has an ex-fi... (265 words)

If he wanted to stay friends why hasn't he called?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Me ans my ex were together for 6 months but two weeks ago, we broke up. It was pretty mutual I guess, but he initiated it. He said that he didnt want us to hate each other and didnt wanna lose me as a friend and still wanted to hang out. I said that the friend ... (240 words)

We fight, we break up, but somehow keep ending back together again! Why do we have this pattern?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello I have been in and out of a relationship with someone for over four years now. we fight and then we breakup and sometimes its a really bad breakup and then months go by and we will get back together. this has happened so many times now i cant even remember how man... (153 words)

Lost my job and am feeling depressed and rejected.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all hoping for some advise. just Recently been made redundant and I have been on loads of interviews and only a few have got back to me. I feel really depressed and I cant shake this feeling. I go out with friend and go running, but this horrible feeling of self hating will ... (84 words)

Can one person bully you, or is it only when a group gangs up on you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - What is bullying, i'm not sure if i'm being bullied or not. Is it when a group gang up on you, or can it be just one person?... (28 words)

I am feeling depressed because I want someone to love me.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I wouldn't say I'm fully co-dependent because I don't have to have a boyfriend 24/7. I know I'm young but I really need help. I'm on depression pills, but I haven't taken them yet today and I just feel pathetic. I don't understand why none of the guys that I happen to like, ... (219 words)

My friends and my boyfriend hate each other.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Guys, I'm in a sort of sticky situation. I love my boyfriend to bits and I love my friends too. But the problem is - they hate eachother. When I first started going out with him, my friends made fun of us and kept on saying nasty things about him. I got really angry so ... (146 words)

I love him, but hate him also. Is he just playing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this boy and ever since i was 13 we have been seeing eachother on and off and now i am 16 i have finally decided to end it full stop..we stopped all contact! He then started seeing this other girl, leah, for a few months. i bumped into him at pizza hut with her. i kept ... (221 words)

I think I need to leave my babies father. He loves drink and drugs more than us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello this is a single mother to my 3 months old son ... the father is a bad person he uses the drugs n goes out a lot with his wrong friends n comes home to cause a lot of problems for us (me and my son) i plan to leave him he is always asking me to stay how sorry he is of ... (154 words)

Lesbian's girlfriend's love has faded and now she seems to have feeling for a new guy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend, let's call her 'W', and I have been officially a couple together for 2 years (we were friends for 7 years so our friendship foundation is very strong) but last month, she emailed her friend to tell her that she has developed some feelings for this other guy and ... (1038 words)

Here are a few new signs hes giving out. Do you think he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I posted about this situation a while back: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-tell-him-and-risk-our-friendship.html Things have actually progressed recently, i'd like to know if any of these signals mean that he really likes me! The reason being is because I wan... (296 words)

What is a sexual fantasy? What are the advantages/disadvantages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

23 October 2008 (M)

age - what is sexual fantacy,plz let me informed,advantages and dis advantages of it and how to over come this and enjoy life with wife... (23 words)

My partner is in Iraq at present and I am missing him so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner is currently in Iraq at present and I'm missing him so bad its unbelievible! We love each other and we are the practically the same person we are that much alike... The problem is the intimate times we have together are mind blowing, fantastic... We both agreed ... (84 words)

How do I get over this obsession with a woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - dear cupid iam deeply obssessed with young lady since few years,it is one side,she is orthdex lady plz suggest me,how to forget obsessed lady ... (26 words)

I love my mistress, but she doesn't want me to leave my wife for her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

23 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old and have been married nearly 7 years, so yes that means I got married when I was 20. After our daughter was born my wife kind of emotionally checked out of our relationship, she held unforgivness towards me for things that were not my fault yet she blamed me ... (595 words)

My parents arent supporting my decision to have this baby

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me! im 15 and i am 38 weeks pregnant. my parents arn't supporting me at all and they are threatening to throw me out once the baby is born unless i have an abortion. my boyfriend died just after i became pregnant as he got ran over so i cant live with him. i am so ... (188 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend that the guy I cheated on him with is trying to contact me? Should I tell his girlfriend the he cheated with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my bf in June and confessed to it about 2 weeks later. He reacted badly (unsuprisingly) but he's finally beginning to get over it and trust me again. However, the guy I cheated with has been trying to contact me, trying to add me as a friend and talk to me throu... (225 words)

He fantisizes about me when we are apart. Does that mean he only wants me for the sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, thanks for read my question, I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months, I think we have a nice relationship and strong feelings for each other. He has a very high sexual energy, so do I, the sex between us is great, sometimes we do it for hours, obviously taking breaks ... (197 words)

What is he waiting for time to tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been in love and had a wonderful loving and caring relationship and got married for over two years now and almost out of the blue couple months ago my hubby said that he does not have any feelings for me anymore and does not want to be with me. we spend almost 3 weeks ... (234 words)

How do I get over being afraid of a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16. It's been 3 years since my last relationship.I think I'm afraid of being in a relationship. How do I get over it? =\... (25 words)

My 11 year lies all the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i am a mother of 5 kids and i have not had to deal with this problem before that im having with my youngest who is 11. my oldest is almost 20 with a baby of her own. The 11 year old lies over the stupidest things and will not confess until he has been in his room sometimes for ... (109 words)

I am so sick of being the only single one in the group!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so fed up of being alone. Every single one of my mates are either in a relationship or have been in one. I feel so left out of it, yet I just can't find anyone who is interested in me. I know I'm only young, and I'm not asking for some to marry, just someone to be ... (226 words)

Could his rejection just be a sign of depression? How can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, About two months ago, my boyfriend went on holiday with his single friends. A few days before returning, he text me and told me he wanted to be on his own. Then he told me that 'He loves me but he is not in love with me.' I asked him how long he had felt like that and he... (300 words)

Sometimes I feel so unhappy with my boyfriend I just want to get out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really so confused is it normal. Me and my bf (22) are dating for a year and half now, but most of the time he do things that make me feel so awful, sad and just unhappy, that I just want to get out of this relationship during these difficult times. Don't get me wrong he ... (156 words)

What to do with a disappearing, lying, stealing husband?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for a little over 5 years now and our marriage has had some problems. when we first got married my husband drank a lot and did drugs I knew how much he drank but he tried to hide his drug use from me but I always knew.... We were actually good ... (933 words)

I think I'll let him use me for sex as I like him so much.

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy now for about a year, we met at a friend's birthday party and I fancied the pants off of him! He told me he liked me too, we ended up kissing, dancing etc.. but we didn't see each other again until June, she had another party and he was there! We ended up ... (151 words)

How can I tell my friend he's being worked over?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advice on how do you tell your best friend that the girl he is stuck on is not good for him? I am a female, a couple years younger than my friend. Here is the story we will call him fred and her wilma, wilma is 26 and in prison at this time. fred and wilma met ... (380 words)

He took my virginity but he'd already slept with 7 other girls!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids. My boyfriend lied to me for 8 months about being a virgin, but then after he took my virginity he confessed to previousy sleeping with 7 girls!! He told me he didn't want to hurt my feelings, which he did twice as much by lying! Why would he lie? I went ... (218 words)

He used to have chlamydia but he says it's gone now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This might sound like a daft question but does chlamydia come and go? I know he HAD it, but he said he doesn't now :s does it just go? or does he still have it?? He wants me to sleep with him but I'm really unsure about him although I do like him, but since I found this out I ... (70 words)

He lives so far away... will this work or should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So I met this guy online, and we both really like each other, but we both live so far. I'm not sure how to make this work, so I'm just wondering if I should just move on or keep on talking to him and see what will happen?... (48 words)

He wants to court me after my graduation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently had my 'love of my life' once again after 2 1/2 years. But this one is strange, totally. For he's an HS teacher and I am his student. I'm only 17 and he's 24. I think he loves me more than I do, really. We do not talk whenever we're on school, or should I say it's I ... (225 words)

I've been invited to go on a trip to Florida ! Problem is I will probably het my period. Is there any way I can delay my period ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so my best friend and her parents are going to florida next year, june and they have invited me, well who wouldnt jump at the chance to go to florida?! i was well exited! even though its still seven months away im still really really exited! but the thing is, were goin on ... (163 words)

A threesome gone wrong!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.. I had this crazy idea once to have a threesome. I was really drunk and so we had a threesome, me my boyfriend and another guy. I love him with my whole heart and I felt really bad about it the next day, since he said at the beginning he didn't want to. Now he wants... (78 words)

Do you think deep down he would like to get back together again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Last nite I got back from meeting a friend of mine and my ex, basically we had a drink and a laugh and nothing more, anyway I know for a fact that this mate I went out with likes me more then that, anyway I think he mentioned this to my ex which my ex replyed to him that she ... (202 words)

Still feeling the effects of husband's secret friendhip 8 months on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I posted on here in Feb 08 in respect of a problem I was having with my husband - and many thanks to the aunts and uncles who provided advice it was really comforting and helpful: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-my-husband-having-an-affair.html We've stayed together ... (750 words)

How do I woo a woman who was brought up in India?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

23 October 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a white caucasian man living in UK who is very fascinated by an Indian woman who I met recently in a work place. I have never dated an Indian woman before and would very much appreciate any views how to woo this woman that I adore without offending her. She is o... (99 words)

How can I lose weight without diet or exercise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Has anyone ever tried diet shakes with any sucess? Im at the end of my tether I have ALWAYS been slender and athletic but I have put on 20 kg in a year and cant budge it. I have gone from full time work to full time study. I also broke my ankle and am still having physio a... (119 words)

How can I stop my periods from being so erratic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Girls i am really annoyed! i am 14 years old and i have had my period since i was 9. And EVERY SINGLE occasion/ wedding/ funeral/ party/ sleepover/ holiday i have been on my period! It is so frustrating! its like it does it on purpose, i have only been in the swimmin... (134 words)

I'm not 18 yet - will this relationship lead to trouble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my problem is that my family just moved from our former home to a new town to live by the sea, which is really hard for me and is killing me psycologically. Its been so hard for me to cope with this changes and the only joy i have is in my boyfriend who is ten years older than ... (132 words)

I want to go back to my ex - what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5904 days ago

23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - am feeling very bad today because my recent question was attended to but i can not view it, i will still ask the same question coz i did not get the answer. well i have been dating a guy last year till early this year but then we split up february . i started dating ... (93 words)

Is this a healthy 'friendship'?

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23 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - when i was in the 5th gd. i had a crush on my twenty three year old coach. well, i'm naturally a flirty person so of course i flirted w/him. well, we spent a lot of time alone together because he gave me rides home everyday because we were neighbors. well, the next year he ... (101 words)

Do I have a trust or control issue here?

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23 October 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am still asking myself what went wrong after what seemed to be a perfect 5 year relationship in which we lived together. I was ready to get married, I always have felt that I am a good man. The problem... I couldn't say no, I basically waited on this girl hand and foot, I ... (377 words)

I can't afford him any more but I can't kick him out either!

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, my problem is with my lazy, unambitious boyfriend, he went to london for 2years where he had the time of his life, he worked, he travelled europe no that he's back in south africa he's so depressed.... he's been back for two years.... he hasnt been working, he keeps ... (432 words)

Is my boyfriend doing Acid???

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have met my current boyfriend back in March 08, when I was on vacation. We ended up having a one-night-stand that then turned into a serious relationship. Since I lived quite far away, most of the time between March and now we've spent being in a long distance relationship. ... (706 words)

My 60 year old teacher crush that I can't get over, someone please help?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had this problem for a very long time, and I've tried asking for advice from many people, but no one has cheered me up about this. When I was in 7th grade, I somehow developed a crush on my PE teacher, even though he had white hair, wrinkles, and was about 60-somet... (456 words)

Why doesn't he want her to join the choir?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, my friend won't tell me who the guy is so I'm just going to ask here instead of going and asking him like I want to. She told this guy once how she was interested in signing up for some choir classes in the next semester and she really likes singing (the guy knew she sang ... (289 words)

How can HE be happy?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age - I am still sad, but finally angry. I was married 30 years. Five years ago, my husband walked out very abruptly. I didn't learn till after the divorce that he had met someone on-line from Malaysia and was going to bring her here. (This was a good man, church man, and had ... (200 words)

How do I ask him to hang out without it being awkward?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok long story but I'll try make it short and please dont judge. Last year I performed oral on a guy, let's call him Bob because I really liked him, but he only wanted sex, so I said no and he stopped talking to me. A week later, foolishly I got drunk at a party and ONLY made ... (329 words)

My son is a drug addict!

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23 October 2008 (M) age - My son is a drug addict, every time, he needs to get better moves back home, and destroys the peace and leaves a mess behind emotionally. But we have a very hard time to say no to him, as we love him but it weakens the marriage, it gets in a weak place even without this ... (148 words)

Friendships with married man. Which one is worse?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I became a friend with this military guy who's married in a duty he was on a year and a half ago. I felt like we hang out pretty well, although we only met 2 times. Nothing sexual, since then we've being in touch by emails. He was stationed in Korea with his family but he never ... (188 words)

Low self esteem!

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help, I'm feeling really sad because I'm having problems with my self esteem, usually I was a girl with a very high self esteem, but... recently I came out of a very difficult love relationship that end up with broken hearts. Also I'm feeling incredibly fat! ... (152 words)

How can I prove to her that she is the one and only?

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23 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay me and my girlfriend love each other very very much. And I know for sure that this is true love and not a high school crush. I am currently 14 and my girlfriend is the same age. We have been going out for 6 months. When we first got together about the first month we ... (303 words)

His porn watching is affecting our sex life in a detrimental way.

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I love him very much and I know he loves me too but our sex life has always been dysfunctional and at times non existent. I am 21 and he is 43, he has some trouble maintaining an erection and says he just isn't interested in ... (212 words)

What is a woman that realised she made a mistake to do??

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been having an affair with a married man, and I've tried on numerous occasions to break off the relationship, but he continues to call, text, and demand days to spend time with him. We started out as just friends and one thing lead to another. I know it's wrong and t... (99 words)

Will he leave me, to go home to his wife and 5 kids!

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known him for 5 years. I got along with his wife and him but I never knew we would end up having an affair together. The first time we got together it was just kissing and it felt so right. The next time I saw him I just wanted to be with him so badly. The second time we ... (195 words)

She's pissed off at all guys, right now.. But I still like her and want to ask her out. Advice?

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23 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - The homecoming for my dance was this past weekend. and there was this girl that I really like and before I got the chance to ask her she got asked by another guy. This guy then started being a total jerk to her and now she's pissed really at all guys. But I really like her and ... (66 words)

During sex, should I put up with the pain to please him?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old girl and i recently lost my virginity to my 17 year old bf of 3 years. My problem is that i enjoyed my 1st time (and the other time after that) but i'm very tight so i experience a lot of pain during and after it. My bf luvs that i'm so tight. he says its like ... (176 words)

I have noticed his sex drive has decreased. What is the probelm?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age - My husband is 52 yrs old and i am 44 yrs old, we got married 9 yrs ago. For the past few yrs. I have noticed his sex drive has decreased. We used to be intimate twice a week and now is once or twice a month. As a women I take care of myself and always try to look my best, not ... (199 words)

What should I do now that I have told him I don't want him to propose?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in college and have been going out for two months. My boyfriend and I have talked about the future and such, and now he wants to propose to me. I told me I didn't want him to propose yet because we are only eighteen, in our first year of college and ... (270 words)

I'm pregnant now and I dislike this 'open' relationship I have with the man I love! Help

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - In the beginning of my relationship I had agreed on me and my boyfriend in having an open relationship. More or less on his side he got to flirt, sleep, pretty much do whatever he wanted. At first it was no problem because I Thought our relatinship would'nt last more than a ... (153 words)

Scared to ask him out because we hang in different cliques at school. Any advice?

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23 October 2008 (?) age 30-35 - my problem is that i'm very much in like with this guy who is kind of an..well, actually the only word you can probably use to describe him is, well, asshole. But i think that he is a very sweet person... deep down inside. But the thing is i'm kind of a band 'geek' and he is a ... (103 words)

He's well endowed..how can I handle him comfortably in regards to oral sex?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my problem is that my fiance and i recently started to get intimate. yes, he is well endowed,but ive learned to handle that. what i havent learned to handle is giving him fellatio. he is often aggressive,and sometimes tries to deep-throat me and that can be quite ... (72 words)

She says she loves me but says it won't work! What should I do?

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23 October 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey my dad just split up with this girl's mum and we were really close. after a month of thinking i finally told her i love her and she said she loved me back. but says she wants it to work but says it won't because of what other people will say. is there any way i can change ... (61 words)

I love him but is this other guy going to come between us?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - well bassicaly i really dunno what to do here, ive met this really nice guy and ive been with him for a while now and we love eachother soo much but i feel like something is getting in the way .. its jst i have been speeking to this other boy on msn and we have been talking ... (147 words)

Why does my wife want to "just play" and not have sex?

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23 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - all my wife wants to do is give me head or jerk me off and all i want is to touch her but when i do she says no or stop i dont want to have sex i just want to play to it feels like its been like this for months ... (52 words)

Should I tell his wife what really happened between us?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok..so I know you're going to judge me and I cannot explain how complicated this whole situation is...but the jist of it is I am a mistress with a married man. This has been going on for 5 months...his wife found out about us about almost 3 months ago...and he moved out. He is ... (399 words)

It was just a kiss with this other guy! Should I tell my bf?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am dating this sophmore and i am a freshman. we went out once before but for only a few days. a month later we are back on again. i do like him and i know he isn't with me to get in my pants. but i do like somebody else who is a sophmore. this other boy i have liked for ... (180 words)

Can't tell what the 'status' is between me and him! What do you think?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im a freshman and me and this sophmore have been talking for over 5 months now. we have talked about dating each other and how we both like each other but once school started in august he started dating this other girl. they are broken up now but still close. i thought we ... (105 words)

My boyfriend is cheap!! What do I do and how do I tell him?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for 7 months long distance. We usally see eachother every weekend. At first I went there everyweedenk and for bus trips and cab rides it was over 100$ a weekend(plus everything else, alcohol, food etc.) He comes down more often now and pays for his ... (338 words)

I love my cousin but don't want to upset the family! What should I do?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked my first cousin for 4 years now and only today i found out that he liked me to for the same amount of time. I thought it would be wrong if anything sexual should happen between us but if it did it would ruin the family and i dont know what to do because i have ... (96 words)

Since he broke up with me its like my life shutdown! Any advice?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A week ago my boyfriend brokeup with me. this has been the hardest thing I've ever had to face,i really loved him and i was stunned when he ended it. we were together for 9 month and we had our highs and lows but i never stopped loving him,.since he broke up with me its like my ... (136 words)

Are there still feelings between us? What could this mean?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well it's been a month since my ex broke up with me and I haven't been seeing him or talking to him for about 3 weeks so today was kinda hard to tell. Today me and my friend walk to class this morning and I walk past my ex. I decide to give him the unexpected and so I said hi! ... (191 words)

My life has changed and I feel so confused and alone right now Please help!

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23 October 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I split with my boyfriend about 1 year ago as we were living in different countrys because of work commitments and i was having alot of problems because i seemed to be changing and not being the way i used to be, i just wasn't motivated with anything anymore i would sleep all ... (258 words)

Lost my confidence when my gf and I broke up! How do I get it back?

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi over the last few months I had some problems I broke up with my girlfriend and I have been made redundant I have lost all my confidences and worst of all my ex has destroyed most of my friendships with my friendp with my gf-- in a quick explanation my friends asked me to ... (75 words)

Lost my virginity to him but I think ...he gave me a STD!!

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23 October 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with this guy who I lost my virginity to for 6 months. Before I went to the doctor, I had sex with him about 10 times. I went over the summer and she said everything looked fine and I was negative for ghonnehrea and chlamydia. I also told her that I get a lot of ... (130 words)