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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey there! This last Saturday, I went to Homecoming with three of my girlfriends - all of us dateless - and kind of "bumped" into this guy that I sit next to in Spanish class. During class, he usually will tease me a bit, or at least start small conversations with me. Whenever there is group work, he always makes sure I'm in the same group as him (and it's not because I do all of the work... lol).Well, anyway, so at Homecoming, he started grinding with me, but left pretty quickly. I acted like I didn't care, so I didn't seem clingy or desperate, and about twenty minutes later, he came back to dance with me some more... And then left again. And then came back for a slow song. And then left... And you get the idea. Every time he came back, though, he always stayed for longer and longer periods of time to dance with me.This week, though, he has been ignoring me, somewhat. In class he teased me a little bit, but other than that we have not talked... Is this a pretty good sign that he doesn't like me, and regrets dancing with me? Or... is he trying to gauge a reaction in me? Is he waiting for me to talk to him about the dance? I mean, what is going on with this guy?Adding to that, all of my friends said the very next day that when he was dancing with me, he was looking at me like I was the most beautiful girl on the floor, and that he could not stop smiling... Also, I'm not shy, but I'm not outgoing either, so telling me to ask him whether or not he likes me is not going to do me any good. My gut feeling on the situation is that he doesn't know whether I like him back or not and is just playing the game safely... Could this be an accurate assumption?Thank you sooo much!
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reader, Oceania  +, writes (22 October 2008):
 Dont think about it too much, he obviously likes you but not because of that means that everyday he is going to stalk you! relax, send him positive signs that you like him too so he can feel confident enough to ask you out.
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