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writes:hii have been married for over 25 years and have always loved my wife. recently i have met a married woman who we both get on very well. nothing has occoured yet but we have both spoke about our feelings for each other.but both agreed we have each got a lots to lose.i don't think its a mid life crises for us both i just think we have a lot in common as we have both reached the stage of life where we both want more than what we have now.anyone any experiance or thoughts to share on this
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): I know what you are going through, as I seem to be in the same situation. Married for 24 years and enamored with another man who is married (23 years). We have so much in common and are so attracted to each other. We are emotionally involved and have even admitted our love. Yet, we draw the line at letting it progress sexually. The desire is there, however. We know it is wrong - yet, we keep thinking we enjoy the feelings we share and can control the relationship from progressing further. it is challenging.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): Yes read Mae5 Sept 18th " my paramour used me for sex" horror story and how much pain and devastion having an affair causes, and it will wake you up forever, no human bieng should cause pain by having an affair behind someones back and no innocent partner should ever have to endure the pain and horror in return, take heed of these other experiances before you end up losing everything that is dear to you. Lexy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi
thanks for your honest answer, i think i know that but as i am now in the second part of my life and feel that have i got it right and what happens of i havent. like i said i love her dearly but we are not connection in any way and its been like that for a while, i know it would be heart ace alround and that why we have only talked. yes i would like to have sex with her but i agree that will take it further and i have questioned my self if its just lust. i have been ver lucky with sex and i think it more than that at the moment. Thanks for your comments. who ws it in your case you or your partner
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): You love your wife but you want to to, what, have sex with this other woman? If that is all there is, you need to grow up. You might think that it won't hurt either of your relationships, but once sex enteres the picture, you are playing with fire and someone is going to get hurt and that chance that it will create all kinds of hell at home for you and for your sexual partner is unavoidable. I'm not saying this to judge you. I'm saying this because it has happend to me. If you want tons and tons of heartbreaking of drama in your life, and you want to take the chance that your marriage will be ruined and so will your partners, and you don't care if someone else gets hurt terribly along the way, by all means continue down this path your are considering.
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