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*etright11
writes:so i have these stupid friends, or so called"good firends" and they treat me as if they dont know me during school. but when we hang out its like we are bff's and its really pissing me off. i feel like i might be annoying them in a scince but i dont do crap to them, i tried to ask them why they act like this to me, but they either ignore me , or just say im not mad at you...... yeah you guys are probably thinking"why am i hanging around them?" easy because they're the only one who almost accept me. they talk shit about all there friends then they go and act like they are best friends. like today my friend was talking crap about her ex boyfriend, and i thought they were good friends after they ended it but anyway i was like "isnt he like you friend or something?" and she goes'"NO he way to full of himself" and im like"O.K," and i really wanted to say. "o wow, your saying that now, but when you see him your probably gonna be luvy duvy on him" but i kept my mouth shut. god i have too many problems. i hate school soo much. on top of that alot of guys think im hott but wont ask me out. so call me a hoe, and i dont say anything others say she has already 13boyfriends. please i havent had one decent boyfriends yet. i dont know why. i mean scheaa im really good looking" thank god, no joke" but its like somehting is preventing them from getting to me or something. i have no idea what to do with my life...
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reader, PsychicDove  +, writes (22 October 2008):
 Yes, sweetie, we all got that I think [:D], we were suggesting things so that you don't feel lonely because of lack of an understanding boy friend.
You could try making online buddies though, I discovered 2 of my soul mates online they are damn good friends huh!
Lol, be cool okay?
~PsychicDove
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reader, getright11 +, writes (21 October 2008):
getright11 is verified as being by the original poster of the question wow, all of this is great advice. thank you so much. i really hope that all works out and stuff. but i also want to add that i am not looking to be in a despret friend relationship, but i am becoming friends with new people everyday.
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reader, PsychicDove +, writes (21 October 2008):
Oh I meant 'Try Not to show' in my 1st line honey. A mistake.
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reader, PsychicDove +, writes (21 October 2008):
Hi Honey,
You are below 15, hence quite vulnerable and naive and people are exploiting you. I feel you have a kind of needy look in your eyes, the one which clearly shows, 'I need someone loving and caring'. Kinda helpless or masochistic look which the heartless people are feeding upon.
Try to to 'show' or discuss about your inner fears or desire of approval and affection with your so-called friends. If they talk behind their b/f's back then they definitely would talk behind you. Always let outsiders know that you are confident deep inside and that you DON'T NEED their support for survival.
Kill their confidence with yours. Adopting a more brisk or crisp attitude towards the opposite sex will draw men towards you like bee to honey. The men of this era like crisp and sharp women, most of them. So if you display your vulnerability then it will definitely attract dumb and blunt remarks and crticism.
You should wait until you make a nice best friend, talk with that person all about your fears and problems, not with the current friend circle who seem to be ashamed of hanging out with you within school premises.
A friend in need is a friend indeed.
I try to give advice/suggestions after doing a psychic reading but unfortunately people post Anonymously and it gets hard to focus. If your hair colour is brown and if it is quite lengthy then I see a caring b/f with long-term potential approaching your life, he will be of medium height, like not very tall, below 6 with a muscular and strong physique, a very manly guy with a tender heart.
You will love him a lot and he will also be supportive of you.
But yes, only if your hair is like I described above. Try not to be hard on yourself and silently affirm that you are the best and you will get the very best because you deserve it.
Try meditating on this affirmation after 10 slow and deep breaths. Maintain secrecy if you intend to practice this meditation or it would not work. Repeat it as many times as you feel guided to every day, not aloud although.
'I lovingly affirm that I radiate and receive true and ever-lasting love in my interactions with the people whom I am drawn to'
Take care okay?
~PsychicDove
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reader, woman23 +, writes (21 October 2008):
 If i were you, i would busy my self with something i like like: soccer, cheerleading, some activity at school that would involve me in meeting other people and keeping my head busy and away from drama and problems. and with your friends you should comment in a nice manner to them, and try to include your self so they dont get offended and say" You know, we are knid of hypocrites because remember...." and say maybe we should cut it out between us to avoid problems. you have to understand that at your age everyone in school acts similar so try to just surpass it.
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